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WastedTime12 (original poster member #34767) posted at 2:08 AM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
On the 15th it will be a year since I have been divorced. I learned a lot about me in that time. I have read here so much! I finally learned that he truly was/ is no friend. There have been countless lies, deceptions, and ommissions on his part for the last six years. I have learned that I lied to me almost as much as he did.
I also have now learned that I can and did put a stop to all of it. I am good and worthy of friendship and love! I am finally understanding that it was never about me at all!
I am another step closer to indifference.
Life is getting better all of the time and truly I am now starting to really get why the why no longer matters.
Take care of yourselves.
Life is meant to be lived, not numbed!
In his quest for freedom, he set me free!
sunsetslost ( member #39885) posted at 2:40 PM on Thursday, November 14th, 2013
Thank you for sharing this. 
Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 12:15 AM on Friday, November 15th, 2013
Yay for one year D anniversaries and continuing the slow and steady path to indifference. (Okay, maybe not as steady as we would like that path to be...)
My one year is coming up on the 19th 
Here's to us getting free
"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
WastedTime12 (original poster member #34767) posted at 12:41 AM on Friday, November 15th, 2013
Tesla, your right, not a steady path but it is now a nice path
I have followed your story. So sorry. I really think I am one of the lucky ones.
Take care of you and Teslet.
Life is meant to be lived, not numbed!
In his quest for freedom, he set me free!
persevere ( member #31468) posted at 1:59 AM on Friday, November 15th, 2013
I find that each antiversary is like a new point of progress in moving forward.
It will be 3 yrs since I was blindsided by Dday on January 11th, it's starting to no longer really matter.
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
phmh ( member #34146) posted at 2:04 AM on Friday, November 15th, 2013
Someone here called it a reversary once. I like that one year of progress of reversing the damage done by these losers. Congrats!
Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!
Married: 11 years, no kids
Character is destiny
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