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PhoenixRisen (original poster member #35912) posted at 4:52 AM on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013
as we said goodnight on our 2nd date. We had stayed talking until the restaurant closed (seriously putting chairs on table top closing...). Then we stood outside near our cars under an almost full moon and looked at the stars for a minute and made plans for our next date, then he turned and leaned in and kissed me....
I thought I had forgotten how, but I think it came back to me 
Admittedly, after the first 2 seconds I felt the urge to run (but that is just how I have always been.. innately shy bordering on anxious/avoidant and I work really hard to work through that so I dont end up that old crazy lady with 25 cats. And most times I'm successful and appear totally normal). So I just let myself go and enjoy the moment. And I did. I really did.
it was soft and gentle then... a little more passionate, we stood there kissing for about 10 minutes before we hugged (then kissed some more... until the restaurant turned off their patio lights -LOL) then parted.
wildbananas ( member #10552) posted at 5:50 AM on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013
Awesome! This sure made me smile.
Travel light, live light, spread the light, be the light. ~ Yogi Bhajan
timeforchange ( member #27454) posted at 6:07 AM on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013
Ahhhhhhhhhh
Love your description
So when is the third date? And where are you going??????
Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12
“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”
stronger08 ( member #16953) posted at 8:07 AM on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013
I love the adrenaline rush you get from the first kiss. Its probably not even your best performance in that department as your nervous. But there is something special about first kisses. Look at me getting all feminine and shit. Now I'll go back to being my hard assed self. 
You cant eat soup with chopsticks.
cmego ( member #30346) posted at 11:57 AM on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013
me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced
better4me ( member #30341) posted at 12:55 PM on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013
DDay 11/17/2010 BW:58
Happily remarried!
Hotmama ( new member #41374) posted at 1:12 PM on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013
What an amazing moment - I dream about that first kiss, but no idea who it will be with (although I've got a couple of people in mind!). Way to go!
She11ybeanz ( member #27457) posted at 1:33 PM on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013
NICE! I can't wait to feel those butterflies again! 
"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"
ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 1:49 PM on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
nutmegkitty ( member #33882) posted at 1:51 PM on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013
Me - happy!
2 DDs
Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.
whatdoto ( member #28555) posted at 2:35 PM on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013
What I wouldn't do for a clondike bar, I mean a first real kiss. 
I miss kissing. And all that other stuff too! LOL
Happy for you!
"If your ideal image of yourself is in the future, it's going to stay there".
little turtle ( member #15584) posted at 2:38 PM on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013
what's next??
Failure is success if we learn from it.
SoHappyNow ( member #8923) posted at 4:18 PM on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013
Awwww.....this is sweet to read about! May you have many more of these sweet moments to come.
In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer..Albert Camus--------73 now. Dday #1 was 11/11/05 ***Used to be hit-by-a-train*** Widowed, then VERY happily remarried 2/14/14
msk99 ( member #29293) posted at 7:37 PM on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013
BS (Me): 40 STBXWW (Her): 40
M: 15 Years, 2 Awesome Boys
Divorced
Five simple rules of happiness:
1. Free your heart from hatred.
2. Free your mind from worries.
3. Live simply.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less.
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 7:48 PM on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
ChoosingHope ( member #33606) posted at 11:23 PM on Tuesday, November 19th, 2013
Ann124 ( member #29289) posted at 1:11 AM on Wednesday, November 20th, 2013
Oh I love this post!! So happy for you!
AussieMum ( member #36579) posted at 1:31 AM on Wednesday, November 20th, 2013
oooh lovely! I'm a bit jealous 
First kisses are the BEST!
Me 47
ExH 51
EA Jun-Aug 12 (OW1)FB flirting and then EA/PA with OW2 (Aug-Dec 12). New OW Jan 13, introduced her to the kids immediately.
Married 10 years, together 14yrs
2 kids (DS13 & DD8)
Separated Jan 13. Divorced Jun 14
fraeuken ( member #30742) posted at 3:33 AM on Wednesday, November 20th, 2013
First kisses are just wonderful. I will never forget the first kidss with XSO, first man I kissed after being with XH for 19 years. It was THE BEST KISS ever.
Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.
fraeuken ( member #30742) posted at 3:33 AM on Wednesday, November 20th, 2013
Double post, got too excited about the thought of kissing!
[This message edited by fraeuken at 9:34 PM, November 19th (Tuesday)]
Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.
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