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Reconciliation :
Triggers.

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 myeverafter (original poster member #41012) posted at 6:47 PM on Wednesday, November 20th, 2013

A friend posted on Facebook a link to a article about "5 Ways to Stay Engaged after You Are Married". They are good all fine and dandy until I read #4 - Double Date. Which is all fine and dandy until you realize the other couple we have been "double dating" with for the past year was the AP and her husband.

Officially triggered and now angry again...

[This message edited by myeverafter at 12:47 PM, November 20th (Wednesday)]

Me - BW 35
Him - fWH 37
D-Day: 7/13
2 yr EA; 8 mo PA.

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No12turn2 ( member #40996) posted at 6:58 PM on Wednesday, November 20th, 2013

My WW works at a hotel cleaning rooms. she mentioned that they have a lot of nice furniture and she wishes they would give some of it away. She then told me about an ugly couch and asked if I would ever put something like that in MY home? Not our home, just mine. Then she told me she would love to hook herself up with free stuff and she would hook me up too. Later she started asking me questions about where certain apartments were located.

Other recent triggers:

-Recent Grey's anatomy episodes

-Other families taking walks down our street

-Her laughter or ability to assume all is well

-Certain songs she sings without actually paying attention to the hurtful words.

Me/BS 35
WW 32
M 12 yrs 2 Girls 10 & 7
Phone/Cyber Affairs (3 D-Days)
Status: DIVORCED 4/24/2014

No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.

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