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First to everyone who said I said bi means they cheat - stop being a pin head and stop attacking me and be happy you are divorced and leave my comments alone because you have serious problems understanding me. I said I could have told you that because every man I have met that has been involved with a woman who is bi or bi curious (and yes, there are lots out there - oh, no someone will type back - no there isn't!!! you are wrong, you just said there are lots out there!!! where's your proof! - shut it, ok?) liked the fact that the woman was bi or bi curious and wanted in on the action as long as they were in on the action every time, but you can't expect someone who is bi or bi curious to just be able to wonder when she can and can't be with women if sometimes she can and sometimes she can't and it can only be on the man's time table and on his conditions! It is too controlling and one sided. It won't and will never work - yes, I said it again - I made another statement that cannot be proven just like all your statements. It my belief - that you cannot marry someone hoping to control their sexuality if you allow them another person into the bed at any time when it is convenient for you! Oh, no, here I go - I made another statement - how dare I!

Back to helping this poor guy and not attacking me:

JJ- do you want to know all the details or not? If not - then just do what the other divorced people on this thread are telling you to do - divorce. If you want to know before you decide to divorce then you have choices. You can do what I suggested before I got attacked (thanks for all hugs ) or you can divorce. Done with this thread. I've noticed people who are divorced really like to attack on this whole site. I've seen it a lot - oh, no, I made another comment! I wish there was a divorce only thread ...oh wait...

[This message edited by mychild at 12:30 AM, November 28th (Thursday)]

-slight t/j..@mychild-

I made my comment, that being bi doesn't mean they get to cheat,that it's not a free pass,etc, without ANY reference to your comments. I was commenting on MY experience with this..having a husband who cheated on ME with a man. I am in R with this man..who CHOOSES not to cheat on me..because fidelity is a choice.

Im not sure who you think is attacking you, but I can assure you I am not, and I was not. If I believed being bi meant they would/could cheat then I would not have worked my ass off over the last 3 years to R with my husband.

As I said..OP is straight..he is attracted to the opposite sex. But he chooses not to act on that. A bisexual spouse may be attracted to the same sex, but they can choose to not act on that.

Im sorry you feel attacked.

(((((mychild)))))

[This message edited by confused615 at 7:35 AM, November 28th (Thursday)]