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Reconciliation :
WW "didn't know what would happen". (WS welcome)

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nuance ( member #28793) posted at 6:16 AM on Saturday, November 30th, 2013

I think she knew. I used to tell my wife (tongue-in-cheek): I deserve at least a plausible lie.

Dday May 2000. R'ed.
People suck.

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Mrs Panda ( member #27303) posted at 5:43 PM on Saturday, November 30th, 2013

This was me, and even in retrospect, I recall how bizarre but real the lack of planning was.

For me, it was almost like I was acting and doing thigs with no thought of consequences, no planning. I was allowing myself to stay on a runaway train and leaving everything to chance. Call it the fog, call it what you want. It was a feeling of not being in control when certainly I could have been at any time .

Me-48 FWW Him 51BH
M 20 years,. Fully Reconciled ❤️.
DDay#1 Nov 2008
DDay#2 Aug 2009 (Prior A from 2001)
"Those who believe in telekinetics, raise my hand." -Kurt Vonnegut

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greengiant ( member #41196) posted at 8:29 PM on Saturday, November 30th, 2013

My WW used to say before that when the OP invited her at his apartment, she knew it wasn't right, but didn't knew what would happen.

So after reading all of your posts, I had another discussion with her and said that I didn't believed her. Turned out that she still say the same, but now she add that maybe she was in a kind of "fog" or that she was just fooling herself. I'm a mess right now, but sometimes I find that her mind is just a bigger mess...

ME - BS - 35 (33 on dDay)
fWW - 35 (33 on dDay)
Married 10 years, together 17
3 kids: 8, 6 and 4
D-Day: September 30th, 2013
She had a 6 weeks A with a COW

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