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 Gr8Lady (original poster member #36307) posted at 4:43 AM on Saturday, December 14th, 2013

Melancholy song related to person in love, giving up

As I listen to the powerful message, is it giving up, or acceptance? Person is clearly in love , given their all, and

Unable To get through to object of their affection.

http://youtu.be/BmErRm-vApI

Hope link works, lyrics on screen.

" I'm giving up of you".

BS: Me (70yo)FWH: HIM (72 yo)) serial infidelities over past 35 years
DD: Multiple unconfirmed until 2013

friends wife lasting 10 years. TT over a
year a year. Now his health is declining,
among the lack of communication.

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mrcpu ( member #38157) posted at 5:33 AM on Saturday, December 14th, 2013

Touching!

D-Day 1: 22 Dec 2012 - Confirmed WW was having an affair with my xBFF
D-Day 2: 22 July 2014 - Caught WW working on a hookup online with local real estate agent.
D-Day 3: 18 Dec 2014 - Caught WW Breaking NC with my xBFF for past 2 months via text.

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WoundedOpus ( member #39521) posted at 4:22 PM on Saturday, December 14th, 2013

Say Something...........HUGE trigger fest for me :(

Me: BW 37
Him: WH 38
(DDay: 2/2008)
13 years, 5 kids...Seven years of Limbo

“I don't want to get to the end of my life and find that I have just lived the length of it. I want to have lived the width of it as well." ~ Diane Ackerman

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sodamnlost ( member #37190) posted at 5:17 PM on Saturday, December 14th, 2013

Me - BS original Dday 10-2012, separated June 2014, divorce Fall 2016


Grief, loss and pain taunt her - "you will never be the same." Like a Phoenix rising from the ashes, she rises and spreads her new wings as she brushes off the ashes an

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mitz66 ( member #17888) posted at 9:11 PM on Saturday, December 14th, 2013

Exactly how I am feeling today.....

Me:50/55. BS Him:48 XWH/55 xwbfMarried almost 10 years/ 3 yr rel3 adult kids/ 2 adult kids1st DDay 2 wks after marriage/ Mar 105 OW's and false R's/ 1+ OW’s? April 2017 Divorced/ ended rel Mar 16No second chances ever again!

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Pippy ( member #16482) posted at 9:45 PM on Saturday, December 14th, 2013

If you leave out the period between the "u" and the "b" the link works.

This song matches my mood today. I think it is Christmas depression setting in. My kids and grandkids moved out west for jobs and now OW hosts all their family Christmas dinners. It's a lonely time of year. I do get out and mix, but you can be lonely in the middle of a houseful.

I hope you keep busy over Christmas and this WILL pass with the season. Please be strong and let him go for good. Hugs.

[This message edited by Pippy at 10:58 PM, December 14th (Saturday)]

I divorced him because I didn't like his girlfriend.


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