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Vulcanized (original poster member #33523) posted at 11:18 AM on Monday, December 30th, 2013
Me: fBW/MH 40s
3.26.13: Liberation day: D'd the whiny turd after being saddled with a serial cheating, NPD, jitbag 10 years too long
Now:-----> Everything is as it should be
Thefly559 ( member #40268) posted at 12:36 PM on Monday, December 30th, 2013
No tv for you tonight. I am sorry. Stay strong
"respect? you don't deserve it, you won't get any from me unless you earn it"
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 1:23 PM on Monday, December 30th, 2013
Well. That's the first time an accountants wife ever thought she was lucky to have married an accountant.
Geez. I thought realising how prevalent and pedestrian affairs are in movies I used to love but now can't watch was hard.
That is so shit.
Its the iPod that tried to kill me. I couldn't listen to the radio either. I had my iPod set to random and I swear 5 songs in a row started playing that were massive triggers (one was his hobby band's album, another was the bloody wedding song!). Each time I punched the next button I cursed - by the 5th song I was crying and cackling hysterically whilst cursing the universe. This has happened with the radio more times than I can count.
In that laughter I saw the funny side of where I was at. I knew at that moment that I'd be OK. And I am. You will be too.
((Vulcanised)
[This message edited by SBB at 7:26 AM, December 30th (Monday)]
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
PurpleRose ( member #33129) posted at 3:59 PM on Monday, December 30th, 2013
Oh that is awful!! I have been cursed by music lately. I don't know if its the holidays or what, but every damn song makes me cry it seems!!
I am sorry you were triggered. That feeling is horrible.
divorced the Dooosh 8/13
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gypsybird87 ( member #39193) posted at 7:04 PM on Monday, December 30th, 2013
I just hate stuff like that. At first I had to avoid pretty much all music and movies. SBB is so right- affairs are casually thrown about in so many movies and tv shows! It's just sad.
Sorry you got that slap in the face today. I know how much it hurts.
Me: Enjoying life
Him: Someone else's problem
Follow your heart, but take your brain with you. ~ Alfred Adler
Letting go of the outcome is about the most empowering thing you can do for yourself. ~ LosferWords
solus sto ( member #30989) posted at 8:12 PM on Monday, December 30th, 2013
(((vulcanized))) I'm so sorry. That's a hell of a trigger.
BS-me, 62; X-irrelevant; we’re D & NC. "So much for the past and present. The future is called 'perhaps,' which is the only possible thing to call the future. And the important thing is not to let that scare you." Tennessee Williams
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