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ohiocarrie535 (original poster member #39709) posted at 12:39 AM on Friday, January 3rd, 2014
I stopped by WH work yesterday. Walked in to find him on the phone and FOW standing right beside him ( they work together...yippie! ) anyway, she scurried off when she saw me. H ended his call and walked me out, he was busy with a medical emergency. He asked if I was ok and I said yes. But as I drove home I could myself trying to trigger, and I fought it with positive mental images. It helped some. H texted me and then called me ( with he rarely does ) to reassure me. Even in the middle of the crisis he had going on at work. He would have never thought to do that before! I made sure to tell him how much it meant to me. We are just beginning affair season, and I have warned him ahead of time how I would need him to help me through it. I guess he listened!
phoenixrise ( member #41745) posted at 4:12 AM on Friday, January 3rd, 2014
A positive story is so nice to hear... Im happy for you that he was so supportive. My WH has also texts or calls me something he had never done before and I have to admit it feels nice...good job with the positive thinking...all those negative thoughts and triggers can be dangerous...you kind of have to flip things around to positive right away on a dime when you choose to reconcile...it's painful but it can do wonders for bot
"The grass is greener on the other side because of all the shit that is used to fertilize it"
Him: WH after 8 yrs M...wow to think he held my hand during labor twice
Me: thought I was a cool loving wife
D Day: 7 mos ago RIP soul
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 4:22 AM on Friday, January 3rd, 2014
I'm really glad he's making the extra effort. You are amazing to have not picked up a chair and hucked it. 
(((ohiocarrie535)))
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
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