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suckstobeme (original poster member #30853) posted at 8:05 PM on Saturday, January 11th, 2014
Damn!
I was out to lunch with DS10 today while DD was at a birthday party. He told me that slunt's oldest kid AGAIN mentioned my age while they were visiting exWH last weekend. Ever since exWH found out that the kids think I'm younger than I am, the slunt and her kids have continued to talk about it. The oldest kid does it the most and will mock my kids by saying "you're mom is older. You're mom is way older. You're dad says so."
Last time they mentioned it, I told DS how to respond. To my great pleasure, he did.
He said, "you shouldn't talk about our mom. Our mom NEVER says a word about yours."
I asked how the sluntette responded. He said she said nothing after that.
BAM! Maybe that will teach them just to shut the fuck up.
As an aside, if that's the best they have to say about me, that I'm older than I admit to my kids, they are more pathetic than I thought. Assholes. Worry about yourselves for once.
BW - me
ExWH - "that one"
D - 2011
You get what you put in, and people get what they deserve.
Hard as it may be, try to never give the OP any of your power or head space.
FirstLoveGone ( member #25957) posted at 9:05 PM on Saturday, January 11th, 2014
What freaking brats! Glad DS had the courage to stick up for both him and you.
Slunt sounds like mother of the year 
Wifetress likes to talk about me in front of my kid too. Truly pathetic if you ask me.
Dreamboat ( member #10506) posted at 10:03 PM on Saturday, January 11th, 2014
He said, "you shouldn't talk about our mom.
Before I read the next sentence, my mind said "because YOUR mom is a whore" 
I'm glad he did not say that though 
And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine
suckstobeme (original poster member #30853) posted at 10:08 PM on Saturday, January 11th, 2014
Trust me, Dreamboat, I wanted to tell him to say that but I figured that would cause a shit storm and then the slunt would get the sense that she actually has a place in my head. Nothing says fuck off louder than silence or a response like DS gave.
Fuck her and the needle dick she rode in on.
BW - me
ExWH - "that one"
D - 2011
You get what you put in, and people get what they deserve.
Hard as it may be, try to never give the OP any of your power or head space.
sleepless34 ( member #40274) posted at 11:30 PM on Saturday, January 11th, 2014
suckstobeme-
Love it! That was perfect.
Fuck her and the needle dick she rode in on -classic
Me BW- 40ish, awesome
Cheating scusband 40ish
2 kids, elementary school age
Bomb dropped Aug 4 out of nowhere...
Gemini71 ( member #40115) posted at 4:39 AM on Sunday, January 12th, 2014
Just wondering, why don't your kids know how old you are? Does it really matter?
DSs 21, 16, 12
About my Ex:
IDK
IDC
IDGAF
Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014
suckstobeme (original poster member #30853) posted at 1:14 PM on Sunday, January 12th, 2014
It honestly started as a joke a couple years ago. It was never intended to turn into this thing. It's almost like they just want to keep it going and going and going and, since it has even reached the slunt's kids - who have no business talking about me whatsoever - to me, it's like they want to use it as just one more way to try to stick it to me. If they would just let it go, no one would ever care. My birthday is in May so why they are still bringing it up in january is beyond me. Of course it doesn't matter how old I am, which is why it pisses me off that these assholes continue to talk about it.
BW - me
ExWH - "that one"
D - 2011
You get what you put in, and people get what they deserve.
Hard as it may be, try to never give the OP any of your power or head space.
ImEnoughForMe ( member #41869) posted at 1:24 PM on Sunday, January 12th, 2014
First, your son is awesome. 
But I like how they are showing their insecurity about you by talking shit. That'd make me feel good.
Do the best you can do until you know better. Then when you know better, do better. - Maya Angelou
Gemini71 ( member #40115) posted at 1:30 PM on Sunday, January 12th, 2014
You're absolutely right that it says a lot more about them that they are still talking about you. Your kids' response was awesome!
DSs 21, 16, 12
About my Ex:
IDK
IDC
IDGAF
Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014
sparkysable ( member #3703) posted at 7:34 PM on Sunday, January 12th, 2014
Fuck her and the needle dick she rode in on.
OMG I'm dying! But seriously, you age? Which by they way, isn't even that old! Jesus!
D-day OW#1 2/2004;D-day OW#2 5/2010
Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.
sparkysable ( member #3703) posted at 7:35 PM on Sunday, January 12th, 2014
What is the age thing anyway? Is it like the old "I'm 29" joke?
D-day OW#1 2/2004;D-day OW#2 5/2010
Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.
suckstobeme (original poster member #30853) posted at 11:19 PM on Sunday, January 12th, 2014
That is exactly the old tired joke that we used. "mom, how old are you?". Answer: 29. For the next birthday, my mom took it a little farther, as a joke, and got me a cake that said "happy 30th"
These two assholes have taken great offense to it for some reason. If I had to guess, it's because the slunt is younger than me and has a problem with my kids and her kids thinking that I'm younger than her. She has the emotional intelligence of a 15 year old high school girl.
I honestly never thought it would cause this much of a bru-ha-ha. I mean, really. I'm flabbergasted that they won't just let it go and particularly that they allow her children to go on and on about it. That woman has never met me. Those kids wouldn't know me if they fell over me. They have no business talking about me and trying to make my kids feel bad. If she was any kind of mother she would teach them that.
IMO, this stupid slunt is too dumb to figure out that she's making it clear that she's threatened by and jealous of a person she's never even met.
BW - me
ExWH - "that one"
D - 2011
You get what you put in, and people get what they deserve.
Hard as it may be, try to never give the OP any of your power or head space.
badmedicine ( member #41692) posted at 11:44 PM on Sunday, January 12th, 2014
Ha. Needle dick.
My mom always says she is 37. I told her that was getting awkward since I'm 32. It's just a joke, geez. And I agree: those other kids are reflecting the insecurities of their slunt mother. It's not their fault they have an insecure slunt for a mother. Seems like your DS10 is the closest thing to an adult figure that they have around.
"The wishbone will never replace the backbone." -Will Henry
"This wasn't just plain terrible, this was fancy terrible. This was terrible with raisins in it." -Dorothy Parker
tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 2:24 AM on Monday, January 13th, 2014
People who feel the need to goad others are, I think, typically unhappy. My kids have reported back that CommandOwife has said a few bitchy things about me, but they certainly don't have anything to take back to her that I've said (despite my XWH's delusions that I was trying to alienate the kids from him). The less I have to discuss anything about XWH and the stepfamily with my kids, the better. I'm sure you feel the same way-- WHY would I want to talk about any of them? I'm so much happier when they're not on my mind for any reason.
I loved your comeback. That was perfect.
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
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