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Xheart ( new member #41888) posted at 1:48 PM on Wednesday, January 15th, 2014
In my case, yes. The OM told my wife to "play nice" so not to anger me or raise suspicion. What this did was bring peace to our home which eventually led to her ending the affair.
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BS (me) 45
WW 42
Together 27 years
Married 24 years
Affair Began Mid-October 1994
D-day: Mid-October 2013
Affair End Date: March 20, 1995
OM Suicide Date: March 20, 2009
MindMonkey ( member #41679) posted at 4:40 PM on Wednesday, January 15th, 2014
Yes and No.
She was a b*tch to me immediately prior to her affair and kept it up so she could justify it. But eventually I broke through the fog (didn't know about A) and she started getting really nice. I think it was to make a silent amends of sorts. For a few weeks prior to DDay it was like our highschool days. I felt overjoyed to have this wonderful woman. She did some things for me she hadn't done in years.
Little did I know, she was texting and emailing him right under my nose.
BH, 35, CoD, Military...sober since 6/17/14
FWW, EA/PA (x2) different OM coworkers
Reconciling since 8/1/13
100% ready to file at next dealbreaker...don't test me.
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