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Yes. My husband's law partner knew about his LTA partner, as she worked for them.

He still can't face me. As it should be.

I'm sorry.

I'm so sorry. On top of your spouse's betrayal you find out you can't trust so many more people who are/were close to you. I think this is really cruel of people. This is why OBS's should be told the truth too.

((Kitty)) It does add another dimension to the betrayal.

My BIL knew, in fact, he and my H double dated!! (BIL was cheating too).

It hurt to think that BIL cared so little for me and my 2 children. (Though I guess if my own H didn't care... ) It was also humiliating to think that he knew more about my life than I did at one point.

Probably why I have not acknowledge him in 2 years.

It burns me up that WH's best friend knew. Makes me feel better to see that others understand why I feel that way. And yes, it's humiliating that some guy knew more about my M than I did.

For nearly three years he'd drop by my house occasionally to play cards with WH and make small talk with me like nothing was going on. During the A he even made a point of saying hi to me at a half marathon we both ran.

The guy has not shown his face at my house since I learned about the A. If I ever run into his W I will tell her all about the behavior her H is willing to tolerate...

So sorry to everyone who's had to deal with this. I guess it's a pretty common thing and what can you expect from the friends/family? I think it's even sicker to read about friends/family that were the cheerleaders. What the hell is wrong with people?!

For me, seeing pictures of him and his friends hanging out with this one other chick just made me feel like I was some joke, like I wasn't the real thing. I thought he had hidden this OW from everyone, but I was so wrong. What a hit in the head it was.

Cut them out of your life. You don't need them. The best revenge is ignoring them and living your life to the max.

Yes, many in their social club had seen them together and they knew what was going on. Not one said a word to me. After I had confronted, one of them told me ( she did not know I had confronted H) that if the bimbo had set eyes on my H, I had something to worry about. Really??? Then why didn't you say something when you, plus the bimbo and a few others from your f.... club were invited to my house to celebrate on two different holidays???

Then, when certain events took place, unfortunately, even though this woman is a slut and everyone knows it, 90% of the people in that club defended her. I wonder what they have to say now that they see her -once again- do the same thing to another H's wife...

For the second EA, not only didn't our "friends" knew it, but they protected him and did whatever they could to enable the EA not to mention one of the friends wanted to bring the AP down to our home to spend Spring Break with us and for her to be close to my H. Now how disgusting is this???

I won't be surprised if I find out that even more people knew and kept their mouths shut.

It was like another layer of betrayal. In addition to having my heart broken, I felt like I was made to look like a fool. Those "friends" were eventually weaned out of our life. They showed their true colors and he was able to see they never had his best interest at heart.