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timeforchange (original poster member #27454) posted at 7:26 PM on Sunday, January 19th, 2014
The day that changed my world was 4 years ago today.
Tonight I am raising my glass to myself and my boys and our new life.
We survived and thrived big time 😀😀😀😀
I decided on D day that I would not reconcile... Best decision I ever took.
Life 4 years ago was full of emotional and physical abuse. And a deep sadness and unhappiness.
His A was my golden ticket to a wonderful life.
My home is now full of happiness, laughter and love.
My kids are great and have thanked me for giving them a happy home and family to live in.
I am in love with a wonderful, kind, respectful man who I met nearly a year go on match.com.
Life is full of joy and that deserves a little celebration tonight.
Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12
“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 7:29 PM on Sunday, January 19th, 2014
Fantastic post, honey. Raising a glass to you and your boys as well. 
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
phmh ( member #34146) posted at 8:11 PM on Sunday, January 19th, 2014
So happy for you!
I saw someone here once call their anniversary of D-Day their reversary -- for reversing all the damage that was done by being with a cheater. I've always liked that thought.
Congrats on making some delicious lemonade out of those lemons you married.
Me: BW, divorced, now fabulous and happy!
Married: 11 years, no kids
Character is destiny
persevere ( member #31468) posted at 11:01 PM on Sunday, January 19th, 2014
Nice! Here's to you timeforchange! 
(insert lifting glass here)
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
PhoenixRisen ( member #35912) posted at 2:17 AM on Monday, January 20th, 2014
Love the "golden ticket" analogy
Bluebird26 ( member #36445) posted at 10:33 AM on Monday, January 20th, 2014
Love the positive update. Glad life has turned around for you.
Me: BW
Best thing I gained in my divorce - my freedom.
Life's good.
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