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heartbroken2012 (original poster member #38089) posted at 2:41 PM on Tuesday, January 21st, 2014
My WH likes to tell me that I am his soulmate. This was something we said a lot to each other before the A...and I truly believed it. Our meeting was very unlikely.
Then he f&%$^& the OW.
He still says, when we are cuddling etc, that I am his SOULMATE. I dont believe it anymore....
SO my question is how the holy hell can I be your ONE TRUE SOULMATE if you FINALLY found me, then went and fucked someone else at work in the break room? 
BS(Me)
WH(Him)
OW - (former co worker of WH)
Dday: Dec 2012
WarpSpeed ( member #32051) posted at 2:53 PM on Tuesday, January 21st, 2014
What you probably need is actions over words. When his actions consistently make you feel valued, cherished and special then the words might start to resonate again. It might be worth talking to him about that if it fits.
Me: BS (58) Her: fWW (57)Married 28 years
2 awesome sons graduated college in 2015
She left Jan 2010, She filed Mar 2010, Div final May 2010, She shared it was an A July 2010, Remarried Aug 2010
KatieG ( member #41222) posted at 2:54 PM on Tuesday, January 21st, 2014
Yeah I am pondering a similar thing with my WBF at the moment.
We are in a period of what seems like "in love" and I am wondering what's real. A matter of months ago he was "in love" with someone else AND told her he thought they were soulmates.
I guess they changed their minds...
DD#1 - Oct 13
"Everyone says forgiveness is a lovely idea, until they have something to forgive" - CS Lewis
k94ever ( member #11176) posted at 4:54 PM on Tuesday, January 21st, 2014
Ask him and watch his reaction.
k9
BS:61
WS: 53
Betrayed: 24 years
Affairs: 15 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.
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