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Lola2kids ( member #32789) posted at 12:52 PM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2014
Wow, SBB, I'm so happy to read this.
I was under the impression that you were waiting for the sad clown to file after the 1 year waiting period.
It's done. Congrats.
Now go get that bull.
BS: (Me) 48
Kids: twins DD(11)
D-Day April 18, 2011
Him:out Sept. 11, 2011
He moved an ocean away June 27, 2014.
"They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder but I am growing more and more fond of his absence"
SBB (original poster member #35229) posted at 8:37 PM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2014
@Lola, I was waiting for him to file (let him do the running around and pay the $800 - its his fraud to complete, not mine!).
He sent me the doc to sign in October then sat on it for a month or two waiting for me to ask him about it for some big fat juicy ego kibbles. He got skinny crickets instead.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
yestopants ( member #41631) posted at 8:55 PM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2014
Me: 37
2 amazing kids DS, DD
rainagain ( member #14917) posted at 9:51 PM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2014
Congratulations!
"skinny crickets" 
Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:11 done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love- Marino Me: Divorced
need_hope ( member #23989) posted at 9:53 PM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2014
Congratulations. I'm glad this part is over for you. 
Me - happily engaged to a wonderful man
XWS - no longer matters
Tact is for people who aren't witty enough to be sarcastic.
Don't fuck with me, I fuck back.
Thefly559 ( member #40268) posted at 11:31 PM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2014
Congratulations to you sbb. You are so strong and inspirational to all. Enjoy your total freedom and new beginnings. All the best.
"respect? you don't deserve it, you won't get any from me unless you earn it"
soveryweary ( member #32265) posted at 11:57 PM on Thursday, January 23rd, 2014
Divorced 1/3/14 after 31 years of marriage.
Sparkles ( member #39901) posted at 5:54 PM on Friday, January 24th, 2014
Congratulations SBB!
...And thank you for all the support and wisdom you share with this site. I always enjoy reading your posts.
NewMom0220 ( member #39036) posted at 6:57 PM on Friday, January 24th, 2014
Me: BS 37
Him: WS 37
20 month old DS
Married 5 years, together 8, DIVORCING!!! (taking forever)
DDay: 3/1/13 (4 Month PA while I was pregnant)
Sometimes all you have to do is forget what you feel and remember what you deserve.
SBB (original poster member #35229) posted at 10:49 AM on Saturday, January 25th, 2014
I'm thanking my lucky stars today that I don't suffer hangovers - I seem to sleep them off.
My freedom party was awesome and my speech was hilarious and brilliant (even if I do say so myself). 
I thanked everyone there for the kind of support they gave me - support that I never knew I needed but I so did. I am grateful to every single one of them.
Those who ranted with me, cried with me, hugged me as I sobbed, rage walked with me, sat quietly with me in contemplation, spoke gentle words to me, said prayers for me even though I'm not a believer, roared at the moon with me, put me back into line when my white hot rage started besting me, patted my head to comfort me, spooned me during the darkest times, laughed so hard our stomachs and cheeks hurt, recommended beautiful books, songs, films and works of art to inspire me.
I am so unbelievably blessed to have this army beside me IRL and the SI army here too. So blessed.
I hope to god I never have to repay these kindnesses big and small but I am ready to do it in a heartbeat.
Divorce is not what I ever wanted - it did become what I needed. I am more sure of divorcing that guy than I ever was about marrying him.
Strong But Broken was my original name here. If I signed up today it would be Blessed and Free.... and Whiskey/Whisky proof.
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
SusanR ( member #29368) posted at 12:20 PM on Saturday, January 25th, 2014
(((SBb)))
"Divorce is not what I ever wanted - it did become what I needed. I am more sure of divorcing that guy than I ever was about marrying him."
This.
Thank you.
careerlady ( member #16958) posted at 3:30 PM on Saturday, January 25th, 2014
I'm glad you're free and that you had a great time. You deserve it!
Me (BS, 35); The Snake (WS, 36) 13yrs together; 1 baby boy (DOB 7/12)
Serial cheater-Multiple OWs, Multiple D-Days
D by default 5/3/14!
In house 8 mos, moved out 7/1!!!
Summary: http://youtu.be/iaysTVcounI
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