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He thinks I'm lying about this, but I'm not

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 okkk (original poster new member #41923) posted at 1:00 PM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014

In trying to be transparent to show my husband I have no more contact with APs, I installed Free Keylogger Pro on our desktop computer. This was a couple of weeks ago. I opened it once to make sure it was working, and emailed him the info on how to check the logs. Then I forgot about it.

I have been doing nothing, I have nothing to hide at all (I looked at AP's FB page and his wife's, which I told husband about). However, apparently husband has checked the keylogger and days of data are missing. It says there is no keyboard data for certain days, and he is assuming I have deleted it. But I haven't deleted anything, or even opened the software since I installed it.

He also installed it on his laptop without me knowing (which is fine, because I use his laptop sometimes and truly have NOTHING to hide). He said it is doing the same thing on the laptop too.

The software is highly rated, but I need to find out why it would simply NOT show any data for days when the keyboard was used. Could another program be interfering? I don't know what to do, but right now he thinks I did this because I am hiding something. And I am not. And he doesn't believe me. (I don't blame him really). :( Ugh.

Me - WS (29)
Him - BS (35)
Married 10 years, 3 children
3 affairs from Oct-Dec '13

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Deeply Scared ( Administrator #2) posted at 2:13 PM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014

My suggestion is that you both (together) uninstall whatever version you have on all computers and have your H re-install a new version on the computers of his choice. And to have him set up all the account login information, including passwords.

Everything is too fragile and unstable right now so in your H's eyes you have no credibility...put him in charge of the tracking software.

"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.

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RuinedEverything ( new member #36758) posted at 2:56 PM on Wednesday, January 22nd, 2014

Do you have the password to the keylogger? Your BS may feel better if he is the only one with access to the keylogger. These free keyloggers usually don't run for very long. I suggest paying for one that will send email updates. I hope this helps. Good luck.

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