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GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 7:19 PM on Monday, February 24th, 2014
Sounds like your STBXWW may be driving a Yugo instead of that Jag pretty soon....
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
k94ever ( member #11176) posted at 10:48 PM on Monday, February 24th, 2014
I hear "hoovering".
What an idiot she is.
k9
[This message edited by k94ever at 4:48 PM, February 24th (Monday)]
BS:61
WS: 53
Betrayed: 24 years
Affairs: 15 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.
Tripletrouble ( member #39169) posted at 12:49 AM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014
Lord have mercy brace yourself. Sounds like that crash everyone predicted is coming sooner than expected. I hear the hum of the hoover coming at you.
40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013
Happily remarried 2018
Time is a great healer but a terrible beautician.
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 3:05 PM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014
I smell a carrot. Leading to either love bombing or Hoovering.
Don't take the bait!
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Leia ( member #42510) posted at 3:19 PM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014
A friend of mine nailed the situation, and I think her words apply here, and goes along with what others have previously said: "We have hit rock bottom. We have no other place to go except up. OP hasn't hit bottom yet." Maybe this is the beginning of her crash that others have predicted? I don't know, but like others, sounds like she didn't have that great of a time.
"Somebody get this walking carpet out of my way." Princess Leia, Star Wars
damncutekitty ( member #5929) posted at 6:42 PM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014
There's a word for a woman with a Sugar Daddy: PROSTITUTE.
12/18/15 found out my now EX boyfriend was trolling CL for underage girls. From the cops. The fun never stops.
msk99 (original poster member #29293) posted at 8:48 PM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014
Oh SI Community, your crystal ball was bang on again.
CRASH
She came by last night to pick up some clothes for the boys and it happened. She fell to the floor crying......pleading and begging me to take her back. Saying how sorry she was for hurting me so deeply and she will re-build my trust in her. Just wanting me to give her one last chance. I know her bullshitting and when she is telling the truth, and this was pure, raw emotion coming out.
BS (Me): 40 STBXWW (Her): 40
M: 15 Years, 2 Awesome Boys
Divorced
Five simple rules of happiness:
1. Free your heart from hatred.
2. Free your mind from worries.
3. Live simply.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less.
GabyBaby ( member #26928) posted at 8:51 PM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014
Back away, Msk99.
Raw emotion does not equate remorse.
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
I edit often for clarity/typos.
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 8:53 PM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014
Rot roh.
Danger, Will Robinson. Danger!
AJ's MOM
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
k94ever ( member #11176) posted at 10:07 PM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014
Run away, run away, run away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
k9
BS:61
WS: 53
Betrayed: 24 years
Affairs: 15 (2 lasted 3 months. Rest were ONS)
WS died: 16 May 2011
Do not stay in your hurt forever. Choose to move out of it.
Leia ( member #42510) posted at 10:11 PM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014
Stay strong! Don't give in to the Dark Side!
"Somebody get this walking carpet out of my way." Princess Leia, Star Wars
5454real ( member #37455) posted at 10:22 PM on Tuesday, February 25th, 2014
I know her bullshitting and when she is telling the truth, and this was pure, raw emotion coming out.
Gotta ask, does it matter? Where are you in this? You ok? A lot of us had the *hope* of a last minute *stay of execution*.
Gaby hit the nail on the head.
Raw emotion does not equate remorse.
Be careful.
BH 58, WW 49
DS 31(Mine),SD 29,SS 28(Hers),DS 16 Ours, DGS 11, DGD 8, DGS 3
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 13yrs
"I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone."
― Sophocle
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