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Divorce/Separation :
Adrenaline over and reality setting in

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 roarlouder (original poster member #40921) posted at 12:29 AM on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014

Yesterday I signed everything. Now all we do is wait for the D to be final. I have told friends and coworkers since-about 8 people.

My new realtor called yesterday about a house about to be listed that had everything on my list. It's perfect, reminds me if my grandparents' place. Offer accepted late last night (what a day)

I feel like the house was a sign...keep going, you're headed the right way. I am exhausted, and I just feel so sad. Maybe it's all sinking in now?

First day NC with him too.

DDay-sept 2013
1LTA(5yrs) plus many ONS
Divorcing.
No kids

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Gemini71 ( member #40115) posted at 12:40 AM on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014

The thing about those adrenaline highs is that the crash usually follows.

You are absolutely right that you are going in the right direction. Congratulations on your new home. Have fun planning and decorating for your new life!

DSs 21, 16, 12
About my Ex:
IDK
IDC
IDGAF

Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014

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 roarlouder (original poster member #40921) posted at 12:47 AM on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014

A few things to deal with until the house deal us final.

It's ok to take a night to be sad, feel sorry for myself and cry right?

DDay-sept 2013
1LTA(5yrs) plus many ONS
Divorcing.
No kids

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Gemini71 ( member #40115) posted at 12:58 AM on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014

Absolutely. It's not only okay, it's healthy and necessary.

((roarlouder))

DSs 21, 16, 12
About my Ex:
IDK
IDC
IDGAF

Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014

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movingforward13 ( member #38405) posted at 1:36 AM on Saturday, February 22nd, 2014

Hugs, you are headed the right way.

Once a cheater, always a cheater happens when your cheater doesn't have remorse.
Regret is not remorse- know the difference!

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