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craig2001 ( member #55) posted at 7:36 PM on Wednesday, February 26th, 2014
IDK - How are things going with this weekend coming up?
craig2001 ( member #55) posted at 5:08 PM on Saturday, March 1st, 2014
IdontKnow - How are things going. This is that weekend and I was wondering how you are doing?
idontknow (original poster member #2958) posted at 6:12 PM on Saturday, March 1st, 2014
Thanks Craig and those who have checked in with me. The short answer is that my W and I had a very good talk about what I had seen and I am satisfied that there is no A going on. She acknowledged inappropriate behaviour but I accept it was benign. We actually had one of the best talks ever.
She is away now. While I am still slightly anxious, that is based more on my history than on a real concern. We are in touch regularly and she is clearly accountable.
Thank you all.
jb3199 ( member #27673) posted at 6:22 PM on Saturday, March 1st, 2014
We are in touch regularly and she is clearly accountable
Good. But remember--poor boundaries=poor decisions.
Communication is key. You need to feel safe in your relationship.
BH-50s
WW-50s
2 boys
Married over 30yrs.
All work and no play has just cost me my wife--Gary PuckettD-Day(s): EnoughAccepting that I can/may end this marriage 7/2/14
craig2001 ( member #55) posted at 1:51 AM on Sunday, March 2nd, 2014
Glad to hear you are okay. But there are some things I dont agree with. For one, the things your wife said about planning on meeting some guy at this hotel. That is more than inappropriate.
Did you find out WHO this guy is and how she met him and why she is talking to him.
And the fact she is with her friend who most likely is having an affair on this trip.
I hope things turn out okay.
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