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I am not very technical at all, I don't understand what a keylogger is or how I do it. I do believe that the only way I will ever believe that texting has stopped is to monitor his phone. Please explain as easily as possible, we have I phones but like I said not techinically knowledgable at all. I ask my son to do everything for me but don't want to drag him into this.

The iPhone needs to be jail broken in order to have most spy apps on it. One of the best things to do it to google "spy software for IPhones" then call each company and talk to them about installing it. You need a program that installs fast and you can monitor on your pc remotely. Do not let your WH know you have an app on his phone cause he will just get a second phone it he wants to continue the affair .

What is jail broken, that sounds bad. Lol.

ah...honestly - this option is probably impossible for you.

From the internet:

"Jailbreaking is the name given to the process used to modify the operating system running on an iPhone, iPod touch, or iPad to allow the user greater control over their device, including the ability to remove Apple-imposed restrictions and install apps obtained and other content through means other than the official App Store"

Basically - you would need to get access to his phone to jailbreak it - and the process is not instant - you'll need to get his phone, plug it into a computer and download the jailbreaking software. I've never done it but I would assume it takes some time...most people are never without their cell phones, even if they aren't waywards LOL

Do you have access to his cell phone records any time you want? Or do you have to ask him to see them?

A few questions:

1) Does the OW also have an iPhone?

2) If so are they using iMessage or SMS to message each other? SMS text messages are green, whereas iMessages are green. Glance at his phone when he is sending a text and see if the bubbles are blue or green.

3) Do you have access to his itunes username and password?

4) Does he synchronize (ie Plug in) his iPhone to a computer? If yes do you have rights to install software on this computer?

5) Does his iPhone have a 4 digit PIN to unlock it? If yes do you know the PIN?

Please reply back with the above and more advice will be forthcoming

I had a key logger on his computer, worked really well. I also have spyware on his android phone and have wanted something on his new iPhone but couldn't find anything until today. Just got email from spyware company I use introducing iPhone/iPad spyware that does not require jailbreaking, called phonesheriff investigator, haven't tried it yet but I do like the other products

I do have access to our iTunes, we share so that is easy. I have access to our phone records but sprint never lists actual text which is how they usually communicated. I can't get the records of the text either, they say sprint is one of the strictest on revealing texts. Usually a court order. Which makes sense after the murder a couple if years ago the cops downloaded most peoples phones but kept my sons in evidence because it is so hard to get anything out of sprint.

I could get his phone but I don't know for how long. Maybe an hour at most.

His messages come up both colors depending on if other person has messenger. Not sure about OW, not sure if she has messenger or an iPhone, I do know her carrier is verizon.

He does synchronize on our computer and I am pretty sure that I know the pin on his phone, if not he has promised to give me anything I want in terms of pins and passwords.

[This message edited by Breezy150 at 9:16 PM, February 24th (Monday)]

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