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SoHappyNow ( member #8923) posted at 5:05 PM on Saturday, March 1st, 2014
Things like waking up my first morning in our home after the move and he has dug through a bunch of boxes to find my tea making essentials and laid them out. The way he prefers to stand with his hand on my wheelchair rather than sit down across the room. He always says it is no trouble at all to do things for the one you love.
In the depths of winter I finally learned there was in me an invincible summer..Albert Camus--------73 now. Dday #1 was 11/11/05 ***Used to be hit-by-a-train*** Widowed, then VERY happily remarried 2/14/14
kg201 ( member #40173) posted at 5:54 PM on Saturday, March 1st, 2014
A hug, an unexpected text, a kiss just because, an inadvertent brush against *ahem*, anything that shows that my SO was thinking of me and wanted to connect.
Me: BH, 40
Her: Ms. Daisy
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, living together
Dday: 7/28/13
Ds17, DS12, DD12
Divorced! 2/24/2015
Apology. You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.
bigskyblues ( member #36759) posted at 6:23 AM on Sunday, March 2nd, 2014
There are a lot of things about my SO that make me feel loved. The one common thread to all of them is she will put my needs first (as I do for her), or maybe a better way to put it is a lack of selfishness.
A small example is that I work nights and we are in the midst of a cold miserable winter. Last night I was showering and getting ready for work and she said she was going to go start the truck so it would warm up for me. I told her she didn't need to do that (I am kind of old fashioned 
). She replied "you would do it for me" and was out the door.
Lack of selfishness!
BSB
BH 50s
xWW 50s
Dday1 7-2012
Dday2 8-2012
Divorce 9-2012
4 kids all adults.
Married 22+ years.
I have moved on and life is good!
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