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trumanshow ( member #25624) posted at 11:10 PM on Friday, April 11th, 2014
wow keptmyword-you nailed it
remarried 11-15-15
Her prize is a man who ran out on his wife and children. His is a woman who is too stupid to understand that she is not special, she is simply there.
Smashedat58 (original poster member #41705) posted at 12:10 PM on Saturday, April 12th, 2014
Thank you to everyone who posted, I feel validated. I think that Keptmyword was right on, too, about motivation. Now, thanks to lots of therapy and time for self examination, I am able to separate myself from this one sided relationship. WH was always about his job and the money, it only makes sense that he should find his wife there. I was always about the family, and they still love and respect me. I deserve better, and will get it in my next relationship. WH will have to live with only half of his money, now. 
Broken69 ( new member #42606) posted at 3:29 PM on Saturday, April 12th, 2014
Every text now ends with him calling me by my maiden name.. Can't believe he turned into this monster when he was the one who did all the damage. I put my life on hold for 9 months to fix this marriage when I should have left when i found out. Hindsight is 20/20 usually . Mine was no where near that. I had extremely foggy vision. :(
whywhywhywhy ( new member #41852) posted at 5:32 PM on Saturday, April 12th, 2014
I love re-reading this thread too...count me in for a spouse who ended up after 23 years leaving, ended up turning out to be a serial cheater, was sleeping with various of my 2 daughters friends moms over the years, coaches, as well as prostitutes etc, pays some child support but not all that he is supposed to, we were both supposedly virgins when we met and married years ago, i ended up with HEP B and the list goes on....he treats me like crap!!! As if I was actually the one who did him wrong. So odd....thank goodness I found this site and have not spoken to him in 2014 and the last email communication with him was when he decided to send me an email (on March 1st our anniversary) to let me know what he WASNT paying for. I have done the 180 completely and the healing is happening...
I guess it is like others say they have to villanize us in order to live with themselves but really? After everything? Sounds kind of sociopathic to me....
Smashedat58 (original poster member #41705) posted at 12:50 AM on Sunday, April 13th, 2014
Of course, they are sociopathic. They have to demonize us to make themselves look better. My STBXMIL told me today that I have to remember that her son was such a good guy for so long. "Oh yeah, well, he's an adulterer, now." I said. "Oh, I don't want to hear it." she said. "Neither do I," I said. If she wants to come to her granddaughter's party, she better behave.
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