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TrulyReconciled (original poster member #3031) posted at 6:21 PM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014
No one thing in particular, just 2-3 things every day for no obvious reason.
It just.gets.old.
"In a time of deceit, telling the Truth is a revolutionary act."
DragnHeart ( member #32122) posted at 6:41 PM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014
I feel completely destroyed by the way wh speaks to me. The example is this:
Since getting the baby belly. I am as large at 20 weeks as I was when dd was full term (twins will do that). Some days I just stand sideways looking in the mirror in awe of how quickly my body has changed and how beautiful it is.
Wh comment "yes dear you ARE fat!".
If dd says anything about how large my tummy is wh is sure to comment that mommy is getting fat.
In reality I am not. I have actually been steadily losing weight to the point of having the doc weigh me twice at my checkups.
I have told wh thy his comments are hurtful but it seems to have fallen on deaf ears. Only when I turned the tables and made a comment on the body of a man in a movie did he seem to get it...
Me: BS 46 WH: 37 (BrokenHeart911)Four little dragons. Met 2006. Married 2008. Dday of LTPA with co worker October 19th 2010. Knew about EA with ow1 before that. Now up to PA #5. Serial fucking Cheater.
Crescita ( member #32616) posted at 6:46 PM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014
I think this might be a case of having to call her on it every time. Come up with a gentle stock reply like "I'm sorry you feel that way."
If she isn't intending to be shitty, this should clear up for her how often it's happening.
If she is intending to be shitty it sends the message that you are no longer going to play along with covert criticism.
“Happiness cannot be pursued; it must ensue.” ― Viktor E. Frankl, Man's Search for Meaning
purplejacket4 ( member #34262) posted at 7:16 PM on Thursday, March 6th, 2014
Yeah I get it. Unfortunately after being around her mother I know where it comes from.
Damn, we should interview prospective inlaws. 
Me: BS 50
Her: FWS 53 (both family med MDs; together 23 years)
OW: who cares (PhD)
Dday: 10/11: 11/11 TT for months; NC 8/12
Limboconsiliationish
"band aids don't fix bullet holes" Taylor Swift
I NEVER mind medical ???
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