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I don't know where to start. Are relationship HAS been so good i don't know what to think. .was putting one child to bed and he was fondling his man parts so I decided to maybe surprise him and jump on him and make love. ..he yelled at me and told me to get off. Well u know what im sorry my hormones are on the high because i am due in 6more weeks to give birth. .. well we go to bed and he's sleeping and I see him fondling his man parts again. ..I get up to pee and he's doing it again. Like seriously am I really not that good enough..... feeling like shit .....at least he hasn't been in contact with his who're .... I would HATE knowing that she was in his dream or got him off...

(((brokensunflower)))

he yelled at me and told me to get off

^^^That was shitty and very mean. Sorry, but he's a dick.

Is there a reason why you don't "try" to talk with him about his behavior, both the yelling and the lack of interest?

Communication, it's vital.

I've tried he tells me that its him not me and not to take it the wrong way. ..sighs

Wow that must have been hurtful. He's not very nice. I would think if there are 5 kids to feed bath and put to bed and your preggers woman still has enough energy to go a round, most men would be thanking their lucky stars.

Please don't take this as me defending your husband. Are you sure he is fondling his man parts in that way (like stroking) his self?

I happen to be an expert on the the subject of cock and balls since I have them and sometimes it does feel good to just give them a good scratching! My wife has on occasion accused me of doing the same thing but all I was doing was giving them a good scratch for an extended period of time.

I can almost guarantee you that that was what was happening. I doubt he was trying to pleasure his self and leave you out of the action.

Being rejected hurts though I know, I've been there plenty of times. I hope things getter for you and good luck on the baby!

Sorry that you felt rejected! He was very insensitive to your needs.

He should have been grateful you are still wanting to even touch him and at 6 weeks from birth want to have as much sex as possible considering that birth will shortly stop and sex and a new baby makes one sleep deprived and exhausted! Hopefully he will think about these things and apologize.

I do sometimes catch my H just adjusting, scratching, or rubbing his privates around and it does not always mean he wants sex..... so try not to take it too hard.

Im glad im not the only one who gets wierded out when my man has his man parts up while sleeping. It pretty much happens all night, but if i notice his breathing fast or "twitches" in that area ill wake his ass up!!!

That is terrible, try getting on in the middle of the night... Hes lucky, my WHOLE pregnancy I dont want to have sex!

[This message edited by DTERMINED2SURVIV at 9:50 AM, March 9th (Sunday)]

I forgot to add that I also agree that he should be grateful that you even allow him to breath the same air as you. I'm sorry for your pain and hope you didn't take my first reply in jest. I hope that you are able to work this out him.

Well with all honesty I don't know what to think which way to turn ect. He hasn't apologized or anything like that. ..im hoping for tonight to be better. But a girl could only hope. ..