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sparkysable (original poster member #3703) posted at 2:16 AM on Friday, March 14th, 2014
Update : I texted him at 6pm and asked if he still wanted to try to get together this weekend. As of now, 9pm, I have not heard back.
He does work until 11pm, so I will give him that, but if I don't hear from him tomorrow, I guess I will have my answer.
D-day OW#1 2/2004;D-day OW#2 5/2010
Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.
hitbyatruck ( member #23769) posted at 5:08 AM on Friday, March 14th, 2014
I would give it till tomorrow. maybe he never texts from work or whatever. i wish phones gave you a confirmation the text has been read.
Married 1998. 2 kids. First discovery 3/2009. Multiple affairs, porn addiction. one failed attempt at R. Nested for over a year. Divorce final 8/2015. XH is now married. I am engaged!
thebighurt ( member #34722) posted at 2:27 PM on Friday, March 14th, 2014
Yay for you, Sparkysable! And yay for him. He was smart enough and brave enough to start a conversation with an attractive, smart woman! Now I hope he isn't too shy to act on it.
Finding what life could have been....... Why didn't I see it?
lovehatelove ( member #42541) posted at 2:58 PM on Friday, March 14th, 2014
He's shy and you know that. I guaranty he's probably sitting at home scared to death about texting you again because of rejection. I say throw him a bone and text him yourself. Let him know you're free this coming weekend and was curious if he was still interested in getting together. If he declines then game over, erase his number, no harm done.
Yep, this is what I was thinking.... I know what it's like to be shy and to want to call someone, but can't bc you're terrified...!!
Keep us updated!
sparkysable (original poster member #3703) posted at 3:31 PM on Friday, March 14th, 2014
Still no response to last night's text from me to him, asking if he still wanted to try to get together this weekend. It's Friday, if I'm going out, I need time to get a sitter.
I guess you never know what's going on with someone. Something must have made him change his mind. Whatever it was, it's not about me.
D-day OW#1 2/2004;D-day OW#2 5/2010
Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.
LearningToRun ( member #31353) posted at 4:17 PM on Friday, March 14th, 2014
I'm sorry he didn't respond.
i'm still in the camp that if a guy wants to see you, he will make it happen, He will be considerate and he will give you enough time to get a sitter.
Take it as a huge compliment that he approached you and congrats! these steps are hard!!
Me: BS 49
Him: WH 54
OW - HS GF, reconnect on FB - They are now M
M- 23 years
DD Sept 2010 - he was lying about meeting and deleting all his texts
D-12/13/2010 - 60 days after i called uncle
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 4:24 PM on Friday, March 14th, 2014
Ugh. Sorry, Sparky.
His loss.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
hitbyatruck ( member #23769) posted at 5:35 PM on Friday, March 14th, 2014
Some Men????
This isn't about you at all.
Married 1998. 2 kids. First discovery 3/2009. Multiple affairs, porn addiction. one failed attempt at R. Nested for over a year. Divorce final 8/2015. XH is now married. I am engaged!
libertyrocks ( member #38924) posted at 9:42 PM on Friday, March 14th, 2014
Me-37 Ws-37
2 kids
Dday Nov 2012, TT for a year.
Reconciling for the third time in 4 years.
persevere ( member #31468) posted at 2:07 AM on Saturday, March 15th, 2014
I'm sorry sparky, definitely his loss. 
DDay:2011
Status: D 2011
Remarried to a kind and wonderful man - 2017
Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron
It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K.
tryingagain74 ( member #33698) posted at 4:01 AM on Saturday, March 15th, 2014
I'm assuming you didn't hear from him. I figure that must be because he fell down a giant hole and broke his cellphone in the process because why would he ask you out otherwise and then not get back to you?!?!?
Well, it's his loss.
FBS; now happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley
sparkysable (original poster member #3703) posted at 2:45 PM on Saturday, March 15th, 2014
No response. Complete radio silence.
I figure that must be because he fell down a giant hole and broke his cellphone in the process because why would he ask you out otherwise and then not get back to you?!?!?
Yes TA74, clearly he is stuck at the bottom of a big giant pit, screaming for help, holding his busted cellphone crying "NO! NO! Now I can't go out with the beautiful sparkysable! My life is ruined! HELP! HELP! SOMEONE GET ME OUT OF THIS GIANT PIT AND FIX MY CELLPHONE!"
That MUST be what happened.... 
D-day OW#1 2/2004;D-day OW#2 5/2010
Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.
kg201 ( member #40173) posted at 3:48 PM on Saturday, March 15th, 2014
[This message edited by kg201 at 12:43 PM, March 16th (Sunday)]
Me: BH, 40
Her: Ms. Daisy
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, living together
Dday: 7/28/13
Ds17, DS12, DD12
Divorced! 2/24/2015
Apology. You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.
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