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The riding lesson

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 tesla (original poster member #34697) posted at 3:17 AM on Sunday, March 16th, 2014

Yeah, sometimes I feel overly plugged in but at the same time it allows me to ignore instead of texting the asshole asking if everything is ok. My assumption- if I did not have that FB info would have been that they had been in an accident or something bad had happened which prevented them from getting to the lesson. KYIM? In some ways her FB page holds my codependent tendencies in check...but it comes at a bit of price.

The shit she posts...oy.

I wish she would post that the fucker had a job. That's the one I'm really waiting for.

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 3:21 AM on Sunday, March 16th, 2014

You have to share your child with her. I think any little window into that is understandable and necessary.

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Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
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sparkysable ( member #3703) posted at 6:08 AM on Sunday, March 16th, 2014

I'm actually not surprised that he didn't follow through. It's predictable with him.

I'm assuming that he is participating in some sort of recreational drug/alcohol use which is causing him to not be able to be woken up the next morning.

If that's the case, which I'm pretty sure it is, if stripper-whore weren't there, teslet would be wandering around by himself, completely unsupervised while dad of the year sleeps it off.

Not that I'm glad she's there, but can you imagine if she weren't?

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ThisHell ( member #37089) posted at 12:22 AM on Monday, March 17th, 2014

Actually getting started young is a wonderful thing! I was showing at 2! My mother was a crazy person though, lol, and was still showing herself 8 months pregnant with me so that's no surprise that it was in my blood. I rode professionally into my 20's and for a short time, with the coach of the Olympic riding team. Anywho...he's not too young if it is an interest of his, as was mentioned. If this is just because stripper whore is living vicariously... well, she is exposing him to a wonderful sport that develops discipline, empathy and care for animals which is wonderful, so no real harm done there. Shame he "missed" the lesson though... he may really have enjoyed it. It's an expensive, but very rewarding sport.

The bit about the Xbox though... seriously... not surprised Teslet has figured out how to outsmart her! Didn't take long!

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 tesla (original poster member #34697) posted at 12:56 AM on Monday, March 17th, 2014

He didn't seem too crushed that he missed it. He's not really into horses...more so into legos, minecraft, and building 'contraptions'. Although I think once he was actually there that he might be interested.

Teslet said they were taking him next time.

At any rate, I'm satisfied that the stable and instructors understand how to work with little kids and it would be good for him to learn how to behave and treat ponies and horses.

Ex-shat sent him out the garage door and not the front door. Am I that horrible that he can't even face me? Sheesh.

Still 5 more weeks until the court hearing...

"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

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momentintime ( member #16394) posted at 1:38 AM on Monday, March 17th, 2014

They were hoping the stables would present YOU with the bill!

Sheesh can't believe how truly dumb they are. She probably outsmarts him, but then that isn't say much.

Tesla you are doing great, even dealing with the cray-crays.

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