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2goodannie (original poster new member #41967) posted at 2:18 AM on Monday, March 17th, 2014
I am about 3 weeks into going back/forth taking turns with my spouse, living in the house with the kids. It is not easy, but I could no longer live in the same house as my WH. I am curious to know how long others have done this and my kids keep asking how long will this last...any suggestions or advise to make this easier?
HurtsButImOK ( member #38865) posted at 9:40 AM on Monday, March 17th, 2014
Me: Awesome - 35.... ummm, not anymore
"I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel". –Maya Angelou
Jennifer99 ( member #39551) posted at 3:04 PM on Monday, March 17th, 2014
I've seen this discussed on SI once but can't remember where.
one2ndchance ( member #14759) posted at 9:01 PM on Monday, March 17th, 2014
Have you started divorce proceedings? If yes, you should have a good idea of your financial situation. Your lawyer should have been able to give you a ball park figure in what to expect in the way of spousal and child support.
Depending on how long it takes to get a divorce in your state, I would be looking for a new home if you don't think you will be keeping the house. Making plans helps in the "moving forward" process.
Married 26 years
DDay #1 2/2002
DDay #2 6/2012
Gave him his second chance and he blew it.
Divorce final: 9/9/2014
It's hard to see the road ahead if you're always looking in the rear view mirror.
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