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hope2014 ( member #42707) posted at 11:52 AM on Tuesday, March 18th, 2014
Me - BS; 36
Him - WH; 35
Married - 16 years
2 Kids - Ages 3 and 6
DDay - 2/26/14
Williesmom ( member #22870) posted at 1:22 PM on Tuesday, March 18th, 2014
Congratulations, and ...
what an asshole.
You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright
Sad in AZ ( member #24239) posted at 1:32 PM on Tuesday, March 18th, 2014
Congratulations, Chrys. I'm sorry you had to go through this, but I'm so happy you prevailed. 
You are important and you matter. Your feelings matter. Your voice matters. Your story matters. Your life matters. Always.
Me: FBS (no longer betrayed nor a spouse)-63
D-day: 2007 (two years before finding SI)
S: 6/2010; D: 3/2011
WeepingBuddhist ( member #39139) posted at 2:49 PM on Tuesday, March 18th, 2014
Congratulations!!!
Doing the happy dance for you!
Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14
Beyond ( member #3011) posted at 2:51 PM on Tuesday, March 18th, 2014
Wait a minute...he wanted you to pay him 150 percent of your income, right that very minute?! 
Just when I think my BFF's Super-NPD WXH should be crowned king, someone else comes along with a real contender.
You won BIG! Congratulations!!
-Beyond
FaithFool ( member #20150) posted at 2:55 PM on Tuesday, March 18th, 2014
You can't make this shit up. 
Glad you can move on now! 
DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire
Chrysalis123 (original poster member #27148) posted at 6:09 PM on Tuesday, March 18th, 2014
He expected a huge cash payout yesterday. And then the rest when the house sold.
Someone I once loved gave me/ a box full of darkness/ It took me years to understand/ That this, too, was a gift. - Mary Oliver
Just for the record darling, not all positive changes feel positive in the beginning -S C Lourie
Beyond ( member #3011) posted at 7:52 PM on Tuesday, March 18th, 2014
Funny what these NPDs "expect," isn't it??
What worries me for you and others with NPD exes is that there's always something else just around the corner - ESPECIALLY if he perceives that you "won" this round. Be prepared.
ajsmom ( member #17460) posted at 8:02 PM on Tuesday, March 18th, 2014
Another battle in the win column!
Congrats!
AJ's MOM
Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.
"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
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Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
One AMAZING DS - 34
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