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sisoon ( Moderator #31240) posted at 4:02 PM on Wednesday, March 19th, 2014
Did you talk? How did it go?
fBH (me) - on d-day: 66, Married 43, together 45, same sex apDDay - 12/22/2010Recover'd and R'edYou don't have to like your boundaries. You just have to set and enforce them.
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 1:33 AM on Thursday, March 20th, 2014
I'm so sorry that he was too blind to realize what a gift he was given. (((hugs)))
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
ChloeandPrimo ( new member #41997) posted at 5:05 AM on Thursday, March 20th, 2014
HH1--this will be an unpleasant experience, but realize something that I believe you are unaware of: you are still young. You have a lot of life ahead of you to re-build. Be sure you have a good IC so that you can learn about yourself. There was a reason you picked someone this dishonest and cold. You need to find out why you did this and be sure you never do it again. Good luck to you.
Apparently I'm Boring
DD 1/1/14 Happy New Year!
Me: 56
WH: 55
WH: 54
Married 8 yrs
Adult step kids
Great Counselor
May reconcile
His affairs: 8 both Men and women
I see light at end of tunnel, may just be hell fires, however.
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