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fraeuken ( member #30742) posted at 3:38 AM on Friday, April 4th, 2014
Welcome. After all the pain and drama, this is a great place to be. We do struggle and we do go a bit stir crazy at times, but for the most part the lemonade is flowing from all the lemons we were handed.
Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.
Abbondad (original poster member #37898) posted at 1:39 PM on Friday, April 4th, 2014
Thank you for the warm welcomes, everyone!
you strike me as a raging blusher.
Au contraire, SBB. :-)
Divorced April Fool's Day 2014
Fear is the mind-killer.Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.I will face my fear.I will permit it to pass over me and through me.-Dune
velveteer ( member #30997) posted at 9:46 PM on Friday, April 4th, 2014
Ha! Welcome to the other side AD!! You'll like it here.
ProbableIceCream ( member #37468) posted at 9:49 PM on Friday, April 4th, 2014
It's actually a cycle.
Just Found Out -> Reconciliation (optional) -> Divorce/Separation -> New Beginnings -> Just Found Out -> ...
Sorry.. I enjoy dark humor.
Abbondad (original poster member #37898) posted at 12:27 PM on Saturday, April 5th, 2014
Just Found Out -> Reconciliation (optional) -> Divorce/Separation -> New Beginnings -> Just Found Out -> ...
God, I hope not! :-)
Divorced April Fool's Day 2014
Fear is the mind-killer.Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.I will face my fear.I will permit it to pass over me and through me.-Dune
timeforchange ( member #27454) posted at 3:20 PM on Saturday, April 5th, 2014
Welcome good to see you hear at last 😀😀😀
I guess part of the healing in New beginnings is doing all we can to ensure we never end up In Just Found Out again.
My time here has helped me refind the person I lost in my marriage. She will never be lost again 😃😃😃
I have also taken time to ensure I was healthier and top notch At spotting red flags 😀😀😀
I wish these 2 things for you 😃😃😃
Can't wait to see how life unfolds for you.
Those of us with NPD ex spouses still have to deal with their
crap but from observation it seems that things generally calm Down once the divorces are final.
Wishing you and your 2 precious kids all the happiness you deserve.
Me = BS aged 43
2 boys, 13 and 9
DDay 1/19/10
Confronted him 2/16/10
Finally Divorced 8/29/12
“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.”
idkam ( member #18375) posted at 1:57 AM on Sunday, April 6th, 2014
Here's a toast AD. Welcome to the other side.
2015 It's time to get Fit, Fine, and more Fabulous. Come and join me.
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