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Neverwudaguessed ( member #41884) posted at 7:35 PM on Tuesday, April 8th, 2014
I am so sorry; Once I read that he said hi when he noticed you and kept going, I thought it was just a story or dream that you were sharing. The horror and cruel callousness of his reaction to you, and then later when you agreed to make love and you began to cry but he just ignored it and finished….. This is NOT love. I know you must wonder how you will go on without him as a single mother, and you do NOT have to do anything today, except to get into counseling for yourself. Please run to get this help and support for yourself. It will allow you to sort out your feelings about what he has done to you. You deserve so much more that what this man has chosen to give you. Your son and you should be the priority now. How you handle this marriage will be the example that you son will hold all future relationships to. If you can summon all of the strength that you have inside to get help and face this, you will emerge strong and healed and you will have a shot at a happy life in a healthy relationship in your future. You deserve so much better than the treatment that your husband has shown towards you. Please listen to us. No major decisions, but some help to strengthen you. So sorry that you are going through this….
BW: 46 Me
WH:50
DDay1 9-9-13 (18th Wedding Anniversary) 6 wk EA, 1 wk PA
DDay2: 10-25-13 EA/PA with same OW 14 1/2 years ago for 2 or 3 months
OW: XGF Predator who never stopped pursuing WH
DS 15
DD 13
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