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isthisforever (original poster new member #43029) posted at 3:03 PM on Tuesday, April 8th, 2014
As far as working on my abuse, I realised it before he left, and was starting to work on it, but I didn't actually go for help from another party until he left. I knew it was bad that I did that, but I was so surrounded by it, that it didn't quite hit me.
When he left, I looked further into myself, and realised I'm just like my parents, and that is my driving factor - my mother is the most hateful, miserable person, and I am NOT going to be like that. I want to be happy, I want to be free.
Imissmyhusb ( member #42734) posted at 6:15 PM on Tuesday, April 8th, 2014
I'm really sorry you're going through this, as well. How long ago did H leave?
He hasnt yet.
Multiple d-days and TT
3 kids
me - Gettg my life back, him - idk him any more
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I dont know why I stay. Need to figure it out
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