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nutmegkitty ( member #33882) posted at 6:05 PM on Friday, April 18th, 2014
Me - happy!
2 DDs
Very happily divorced from an NPD since 2013.
jo2love ( member #31528) posted at 10:04 PM on Friday, April 18th, 2014
ThoughtIKnewYa ( member #18449) posted at 10:21 PM on Friday, April 18th, 2014
(((dmari & son)))
I'm so glad your son is safe.
tesla ( member #34697) posted at 10:26 PM on Friday, April 18th, 2014
Oh no! Thank goodness he called the hotline and he's somewhere safe where he can get what he needs.
Fuck what your ex's response to you might be. I'd just make sure that he has the hospital contact info he needs to get involved if he chooses.
I wish I could swing by tonight, make you a little dinner, clean your house, and take care of whatever else you need so you can attend to your kiddos.
(((((((dmari, DD, and DS))))))
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"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear
suckstobeme ( member #30853) posted at 10:48 PM on Friday, April 18th, 2014
BW - me
ExWH - "that one"
D - 2011
You get what you put in, and people get what they deserve.
Hard as it may be, try to never give the OP any of your power or head space.
Skan ( member #35812) posted at 12:51 AM on Saturday, April 19th, 2014
Thank God that he reached out. (((hugs)))
Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.
D-Day, June 10, 2012
coldshot ( member #40882) posted at 1:30 PM on Saturday, April 19th, 2014
Strength to you and your son, dmari. Hugs too.
"The liar's punishment is, not in the least that she is not believed, but that she cannot believe anyone else." -- George B. Shaw
nekorb ( member #40306) posted at 6:17 PM on Saturday, April 19th, 2014
Thinking of you and your family dmari. Please update us when you are able.
(((Hugs)))
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Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 M - 22 Years
D-day: 7/2013; D filed 7/2014; Divorced 7-27-16
...the WS affair starts off in a dreamland where everything is all Golly, Wow! and Meant To Be! and Soul Mates drop from the trees to frolic in the mist. -devotedman
Griefstricken25 ( member #29183) posted at 7:32 PM on Saturday, April 19th, 2014
Oh dmari, I'm so sorry!!! Praying for you and your son. Much love to you.
Me!
3 amazing kidlets
To WXH "Now you're just somebody that I used to know." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d9NF2edxy-M
D-day and separation - June, 2009
Divorced - December, 2011
debbysbaby ( member #32962) posted at 10:46 PM on Saturday, April 19th, 2014
Oh my goodness I am so sorry. Take care of you and DS and FTG!
-betrayed almost my whole almost 15 yr marriage
-divorced since 2004
BAB61 ( member #41181) posted at 5:57 AM on Sunday, April 20th, 2014
So thankful for the Hotline! Much strength & support coming your way!
Boss A** B*tch
BS/52 Me, STBXpos/56, dd's 16&14
1st D-day 10/19/2013 EA/PA
2nd D-day 12/7/2013 LTA/Rendezvous
S 12/7/2013 No-fault state, 6 mo S, counting down the days.
Bluebird26 ( member #36445) posted at 10:14 AM on Sunday, April 20th, 2014
Oh Dmari, this must be so hard. Thank God your son reached out for help. ((Dmari & Son)) I hope he finds the help he needs.
Me: BW
Best thing I gained in my divorce - my freedom.
Life's good.
Tripletrouble ( member #39169) posted at 3:05 PM on Sunday, April 20th, 2014
Dmari my heart aches for you. I have been through something similar and it just takes your breath away. There is no fear like it. Hugs to you as you find your way forward in healing both of you.
40 somethings - me BW after 20 years
D Day April 2013
Divorced November 2013
Happily remarried 2018
Time is a great healer but a terrible beautician.
dmari (original poster member #37215) posted at 9:52 PM on Sunday, April 20th, 2014
It is so thoughtful for so many of you to reach out to me and my children during this time. I am speechless. The virtual hugs and thoughts have lifted me in a way I can't describe. Thank you! I'm going to post an update on my son as a new topic. I have felt so much love and hope from this forum! Thank you!
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