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Divorce/Separation :
Proud of me...

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 Klove (original poster member #42096) posted at 10:48 PM on Saturday, April 19th, 2014

I'm the girl who knows nothing about finances and prefers to avoid thinking about it and sticks her head in the sand...

Untilllll... This week! I...

1) filled out my statement of expenses for L. That was an eye opener.

2) hired a divorce financial analyst.

3) contacted a realtor to appraise the house.

4) booked my kids into therapy. Noticed some dusturbing behaviour lately from ds5.

Look at me! I'm a grown up!

"But stand still is all I did
Love like ours is never fixed
Still I stuck around
I did behave
I saved you every time
I was a fool for love
I was a fool for love"

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Gemini71 ( member #40115) posted at 11:03 PM on Saturday, April 19th, 2014

Yay for Klove! You can handle this. It's amazing how much easier it gets when you don't have a man/child to take care of.

DSs 21, 16, 12
About my Ex:
IDK
IDC
IDGAF

Double Betrayal D-Day 7/26/2013
Divorced 11/18/2014

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NoLongerWantHim ( member #19934) posted at 11:36 PM on Saturday, April 19th, 2014

WTG!!!!

Im proud of you too

Me & the kids are having the malignancy removed.

If I went to Hogwarts, my Patronus would be my Big Sister - GWADW

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 11:38 PM on Saturday, April 19th, 2014

Woo hoo! Go, you!

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Nature_Girl ( member #32554) posted at 11:45 PM on Saturday, April 19th, 2014

That's wonderful! But you know what? This is just the beginning. Soon you will be soaring!

Me = BS
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - DIVORCED!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wJgjyDFfJuU

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freeatlast72 ( member #42758) posted at 12:07 AM on Sunday, April 20th, 2014

You go girl!!! So proud of you!

BS:42(me)
Kids: DD7
DDay: 12/31/2013
Married 15 years
DIVORCED!!!

You can't rationalize irrational behavior.

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yestopants ( member #41631) posted at 12:13 AM on Sunday, April 20th, 2014

YAY! Keep it up.... remember the credit card commercial.... I think the last words of that should be

finding out KLOVE is awesome....priceless.

Me: 37
2 amazing kids DS, DD

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deena ( member #27275) posted at 12:27 AM on Sunday, April 20th, 2014

WOW good job!!!!!

I am just starting that process and it scares me, so I am very impressed!!!!

Very good of you to notice something off with DS5. That says a lot about your strength, with everything that has been on your mind lately.

YAAAYYY KLOVE!!!!!!

Relationships are like glass. Sometimes it's
better to leave them broken than to hurt
yourself putting it back together.



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