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New Beginnings :
They're out - implants are gone, yay!!!

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 ISPIFFD (original poster member #26367) posted at 3:50 PM on Wednesday, April 23rd, 2014

Breast Explant surgery was this past Friday. I was more nervous about being on my own than anything else. I stayed w/a friend that night, but have been back home since and doing ok, just me and the cats (dog is boarding for a week). Worst part is the drains - they hurt where they're inserted. Get those out today.

Don't miss the gals at all so far, but I havent started trying on clothes yet.

Mostly I'm just happy to be me again

I'm done here; sick of 2 x 4s

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cmego ( member #30346) posted at 4:21 PM on Wednesday, April 23rd, 2014

me...BS, 46 years old.
Divorced

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getnbtr1 ( member #40540) posted at 4:47 PM on Wednesday, April 23rd, 2014

Good fo ryou!! Hope you recover quickly and enjoy having the old/real you back.

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nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 4:49 PM on Wednesday, April 23rd, 2014

Yay! Sending you quick healing mojo, honey.

You can call me NIK

And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane

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Undefinabl3 ( member #36883) posted at 4:52 PM on Wednesday, April 23rd, 2014

I have a really stupid question here....

Assuming that they put the implants under the muscle, do you have to retone the muscle? If they were in a pocket, what kind of/if any reconstruction was needed?

I don't have implants, but I have always told DH that down the road I may want to do a lift and enhance (nothing like Pam Anderson, but enough to give me back some shape)...so I wasn't sure if for some reason they would need to be removed what the consequences of that might be....as in, better to just leave them hanging

Me: 35 MH
Him: 41 MH
New online find 6/19/14 - shit
Phone Find 11/21/14 - I can't even right now.
1/26/15 - Started IC for me, DH won't go.
1/10/18 - Again?!? Online EA's

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heartbroken_kk ( member #22722) posted at 4:53 PM on Wednesday, April 23rd, 2014

congratulations and getting your own self back!

FBW then 46, XWHNPDPAFTG the destroyer of my entire life. D-Day 1 '99, D-Day 2,3,4,5,6... '09-'11, D '15. I fell apart. I put myself back together. Forgiveness isn't required. I'm happy and healthy now, and MY new life is good.

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 ISPIFFD (original poster member #26367) posted at 4:58 PM on Wednesday, April 23rd, 2014

Undef, not a stupid question at all!

My implants were partial unders, so both sides' pec muscles were cut to make the pockets.

While I'm currently on no-lift/no-reach orders for about a month, I do expect to get back the muscle tone I had originally. Things just need to heal up first.

Amazingly, even though my implants were HUGE (a major part of my discontent with them - I didn't want HUGE and that doctor didn't listen to me), my gals have already sprung back to their normal pre-surgery selves, and I've had these implants for 5.5 years now.

Even my explant plastic surgeon's impressed, esp since at 54, I'm not exactly a spring chicken. While I know some folks who had a lift along with their implant removal, a number of PSs, mine included, advocate waiting 6 mos to a year after removal to see what the body will do on its own. I have no interest in a lift, even if the body looks awful. But so far, I have to say, things are looking pretty darn amazing under the circumstances.

I'm done here; sick of 2 x 4s

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