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By saying more evolved, I meant my own personal style of communication.

I went from police officer, shouting and bossing and telling ppl what to do, to social worker to educator. My communication skills have evolved over the years, not more evolved than anyone's here.

Oh for the love of humanity.

We all speak different ways. We all have different styles. This is an infidelity website. Emotions run high. Some of us are just now finding our voices and "eloquence" fails us. Doesn't mean the heart isn't in the right place. Tough love, mushy love, pick your poison. Nobody is out to get anyone else. Take what you need, leave the rest.

Someone pass me marshmalllow. Its time to sing Kumbaya.

Oh for the love of humanity.

Rough day babe?

Exactly, like I said, if it does apply, let it fly...

Pretty sure that was said in the original post.

For the love of god is right...

^^^^^^

Here ya go

Well looks like DS wore her sassy pants today.

I still fit in them and they look goooood!

brokeback...

It's all ok...we really do understand and appreciate your voice

I still fit in them and they look goooood!

[This message edited by Aubrie at 8:31 PM, April 24th (Thursday)]

No worries, I feel the love and can see how mature and well adjusted you are.

Forum should say...newbies, shut up, keep still, kiss our ass, we are queens, you are shit...welcome, bend over and take it.

Wow.

If only we all could be so mature and evolved as you. Thanks for modeling that for us.

newbies, shut up, keep still, kiss our ass, we are queens, you are shit...welcome, bend over and take it.

It's funny when the newbies try telling that to the old-timers...

You are a band of bullies. How very sad.

Truth hurts. There's issues with your "so called" safe place.

What a joke this site is. Pathetic really.

newbies, shut up, keep still, kiss our ass, we are queens, you are shit...welcome, bend over and take it.

Where in the hell did you get that!? Funny I felt like everyone here was expressing opinion somehow it went from engaging conversation to a widely painted insult to what I am assuming is pointed to the female waywards posting to you. I'll take this time to bow out of this thread. Good luck.

[This message edited by Unagie at 8:43 PM, April 24th (Thursday)]

It wasn't just me! I felt this weird undercurrent with this thread. . . and then Blamo!

I am a BS, and I think most of the the waywards here are just incredible;I have learned a ton. And, there are some really fine writers as well. For a public forum on a emotionally loaded topic, I can't believe it is as positive as it is.

Forum should say...newbies, shut up, keep still, kiss our ass, we are queens, you are shit...welcome, bend over and take it.

Hooo boy. I'm sorry you see it that way. It couldn't be further from the truth. But I don't think anyone can convince you otherwise brokeback.

I don't know what you want here brokeback. You want everyone to be gentle. To who's version? Yours? Who calls the shots? This is a community of many voices. If you don't like it, that's on you. Not anyone else.

Brokeback,

If I don't see you around, I wish you and your family the very best of luck in your recovery.

Stay strong!

Man...the thread starts out pretty cool, then gets cooler, it seems like we're all on the same page, then some humor, then something that seem like it could be tongue in cheek, and now this? What the hell happened to "take what you need and leave the rest"?

Sorry things took a turn. I'll bow out.

It's a mystery to me too Baxter.

I thought everyone was giving Brokeback a voice and place, color me stupid

Brokeback,

I am curious as to what it is exactly you need for others to see here?