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kg201 (original poster member #40173) posted at 1:38 AM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
My ex and I are still in a nesting situation, keeping the kids in the house, while she and I move in and out on a Fri to Fri schedule (home will be ready for the market soon). On my week with the kids she does come to the house to be with the kids when they get home from school until I get back from work.
Today I picked up my son from karate and brought him home. My ex was in the house earlier, but had left already. When I got home my son says to me, "The dog threw up. Twice. Mom wouldn't clean it up. She said it wasn't her job."
I just laughed. It was so ludicrous. My son then said that my ex had stepped in one of the throw up piles. I could only respond with, "good."
Just....whatever. 
[This message edited by kg201 at 7:38 PM, April 29th (Tuesday)]
Me: BH, 40
Her: Ms. Daisy
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, living together
Dday: 7/28/13
Ds17, DS12, DD12
Divorced! 2/24/2015
Apology. You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.
MadeOfScars ( member #42231) posted at 1:42 AM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
At the risk of stealing from another excellent post of your's from a few days ago - is...is she, oh, i don't know, ENTITLED? 
"Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you do have power over instead of craving control over what you don’t." - Steve Maraboli
kg201 (original poster member #40173) posted at 1:45 AM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
yup...entitled to spew on the sole of her foot.
Me: BH, 40
Her: Ms. Daisy
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, living together
Dday: 7/28/13
Ds17, DS12, DD12
Divorced! 2/24/2015
Apology. You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.
MadeOfScars ( member #42231) posted at 1:55 AM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
Niiiiiice!
"Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you do have power over instead of craving control over what you don’t." - Steve Maraboli
PurpleRose ( member #33129) posted at 2:01 AM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
divorced the Dooosh 8/13
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Dance like nobody is watching,
Text and email like it will be used in court someday...
Holly-Isis ( member #13447) posted at 2:12 AM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
Why did this put me in mind of a Proverb?
As a dog returns to its vomit, so fools repeat their folly.
Proverbs 26:11
Oh and this is fitting too...
Of them the proverbs are true: "A dog returns to its vomit," and, "A sow that is washed returns to her wallowing in the mud."
2 Peter 2:22
"Being in love" first moved them to promise fidelity: this quieter love enables them to keep the promise. *CS Lewis*
SBB ( member #35229) posted at 2:21 AM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
Petty is as petty does.
Karma always feels better when it is by their own hand... or foot as in this case!!
I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!
kg201 (original poster member #40173) posted at 2:29 AM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
nicely played SIers!
I just hope this is a good sign that Molly the dog comes with me when it is time to move.
Me: BH, 40
Her: Ms. Daisy
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, living together
Dday: 7/28/13
Ds17, DS12, DD12
Divorced! 2/24/2015
Apology. You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.
MadeOfScars ( member #42231) posted at 3:01 AM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
I just hope this is a good sign that Molly the dog comes with me when it is time to move.
I hope so too.
"Incredible change happens in your life when you decide to take control of what you do have power over instead of craving control over what you don’t." - Steve Maraboli
kg201 (original poster member #40173) posted at 3:42 AM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
Ok...so here is the thing about this post....and maybe this is TMI, but there is a throw up back story.
When my ex and I were first living together in Brooklyn in the mid-90s, we went to a party in Manhattan. She had drank a lot so we decided to take a cab home, even though we couldn't really afford it then. We are half way over the Brooklyn Bridge and she starts telling me to tell the cab driver to pull over. She's feeling nauseous. There is no place to pull over on the Brooklyn Bridge, and the cab driver has that look of sheer horror on his face (although I'm sure this is a weekly event for most cabbies in NY). We don't make it over the bridge...I cup my hands and she goes all over my hands, my leather jacket, the cab.
If I had only known then, that that vomit was just a prequel to what she would do all over our marriage...maybe I would have said it wasn't my job to clean up after her then as well. 
Sorry if that was TMI.
Me: BH, 40
Her: Ms. Daisy
Together 18 years, married 15+
LTA 3.5 years, living together
Dday: 7/28/13
Ds17, DS12, DD12
Divorced! 2/24/2015
Apology. You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.
nowiknow23 ( member #33226) posted at 3:45 AM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
My son then said that my ex had stepped in one of the throw up piles.
Good dog!
You can call me NIK
And never grow a wishbone, daughter, where your backbone ought to be.
― Sarah McMane
Thinkingtoomuch ( member #31765) posted at 6:48 PM on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014
That's pretty funny kg201.
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