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Ostrich80 ( member #34827) posted at 2:24 AM on Friday, May 2nd, 2014
. I was the cool wife that other guys wish they had.
How did this become my life? Years of being worn down subtly my friend. It is the slow boiling frog syndrome. It slowly increases so you can tolerate it. Then you are dead.
Wow, ditto!!
BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 2:55 AM on Friday, May 2nd, 2014
My gut was screaming for over 2 years - no proof and I was snooping.
One night when he didn't get home till 2-3 am and I was laying in bed waiting for him I asked him "if our DD was being treated by her H the way you're treating me, what would you advise her?" His answer "leave him the ch-----". I didn't hear the rest, but I thought he said cheater.
It wasn't until I'd started pulling away and concentrated on kids, did he start slipping up and I had circumstantial evidence at best. I told him to leave and he did.
After the divorce was filed I cracked the password on the family computer to find all the evidence I needed that my gut was right!
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Sadmumma ( member #42192) posted at 2:57 AM on Friday, May 2nd, 2014
Yes!!!!! And you know what... My gut has been with me longer than the moron. So I trust it more 
On any given day you have the power to say "my story is not going to end like this"
Me 41 BS
Him 41 WH
6 kids...7 weeks, 5,7,9,11&13
D day jan 29th 2014
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