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kate0421 (original poster member #40819) posted at 2:01 PM on Friday, May 2nd, 2014
I'm feeling pretty positive today, so I thought I would share. I just joined Shapes fitness and I love it. I've had a gym membership but with my little one it was hard to find time to go and by the time i could it was so late. I needed to find something to keep me a little occupied and something for myself. Shapes has kid care so I don't need to worry about that, I've tried out a few classes and I love Zumba. It might sound crazy but I bought a year membership and I feel like it was a gift to myself. It's been soo long since I've done anything for myself and it feels good. The workouts have helped so much with my anxiety/stress.
ME: BW
HIM: WH
Together over 13yrs
2 children
DDAY 9/23/2013- 2 ONS (2009-2010)
TT. 5/14/2014- slept with OW1 twice
karmahappens ( member #35846) posted at 2:14 PM on Friday, May 2nd, 2014
Taking care of you and focusing on your healing is the best way to walk through this trauma. Good for you! !
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd
veronique12 ( member #42185) posted at 3:54 PM on Friday, May 2nd, 2014
Agreed! Keep it up. You will benefit greatly from this and any other steps you can take toward bettering yourself.
BW, D-Day: 11/29/13 (4 month EA discovered); 12/19/13 (discovered was also PA); TT thru 2/14
Married: 2001; Together for 20 years
2 beautiful young kids
Searchingforhope ( member #38437) posted at 5:36 PM on Friday, May 2nd, 2014
kate...
The workouts have helped so much with my anxiety/stress.
That is awesome! 
I found punching the sofa or the mattress to work for me, but to each his own... 
Me: BW 51 at the time(didn't have a clue)
Him: FWH 54 at the time(extremely remorseful about his stupid midlife crisis)
Married 27 yrs at the time
DDAY 04/25/12
Working on R
PA Lasted 2 weeks. OW totally screwed up $@#%.
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