At this time, he has a huge work project coming to a head this coming week. He is working all this weekend. So I am not pushing anything until that is over.
Gently, I disagree with this. Work projects, emergencies, etc are just LIFE. Don't let him back burner you (again).
From my personal perspective (see my tagline- multiple OW and DDays and False Rs), I think you should continue to 180 and push forward with the divorce.
If he's truly remorseful and wants you back he can still work on himself. You can remarry or date after divorce if you think he's a "new man"
If, in fact, he's only yanking your chain again, you'll have lost no more time in getting drawn back in.
Protect your heart as well as your finances though.
Me - late 40s
DD(27), DS(24, PDD-NOS)
WH#2 (SorryinSac)- Killed himself (May 2015) in our home 6 days after being served divorce docs.
XWH #1 - legally married 18yrs. 12+ OW (that I know of).
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