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AFrayedKnot ( member #36622) posted at 1:49 AM on Saturday, May 24th, 2014
Sorry (((karma)))
I'd give you a pep talk if I wasnt driving. 
But I will send some prayers.
BS 48fWS 44 (SurprisinglyOkay)DsD DSA whole bunch of shit that got a lot worse before it got better."Knowing is half the battle"
still-living ( member #30434) posted at 1:52 AM on Saturday, May 24th, 2014
Shit days can be growth days!
rachelc ( member #30314) posted at 2:35 AM on Saturday, May 24th, 2014
it helps to know that you have bad days too Karma! I have had a couple bad ones but today was ok. I'll know they'll be good ones in my future.
Growth IS painful. But imagine if we didn't grow.
thanks for all your wisdom and insight!
karmahappens (original poster member #35846) posted at 2:38 AM on Saturday, May 24th, 2014
Thanks guys. I need to find a website called surviving FOO.... 
“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd
bionicgal ( member #39803) posted at 4:26 PM on Saturday, May 24th, 2014
FOO came knocking for me last week too karma, with a trip from hyper-critical dad, right in the middle of affair season, while I suffered through walking pneumonia. Sigh. That yoga pose was getting waaaaay uncomfortable. I thought I'd never feel better.
I love this thread, though. I just got POed over a thread about BSes taking "time off" from their families as a result of an affair. I think I reacted because I worry I haven't been the parent I should be this year. It has always seemed true to me that we react to things in others that we dislike/fear, etc about ourselves. So, this is a good reminder.
I hope your Sat is going better!
me - BS (45) - DDay - June 2013
A was 2+ months, EA/PA
In MC & Reconciling
"Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point to move forward." -- C.S. Lewis.
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