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aero1122 (original poster member #41575) posted at 3:47 PM on Saturday, May 24th, 2014
Almost 6 months from d-day and still obsessing and hurting so much. I have good days then very bad days. The roller coaster is killing me.
Time time time...i wish it would hurry up
Me-35
WH-36
Together 18 years
Married 7 years
2 kids
D-day 12-7-13
Both currently in counseling
Trying to R
I am a warrior!
I will survive and thrive!
SisterMilkshake ( member #30024) posted at 3:48 PM on Saturday, May 24th, 2014
(((aero))) That is pretty normal to be feeling this way at 6 months post d-day. Is your WH able to comfort you?
BW (me) & FWH both over half a century; married several decades; children
d-day 3/10; LTA (7 years?)
"Oh, why do my actions have consequences?" ~ Homer Simpson
"She knew my one weakness: That I'm weak." ~ Homer Simpson
HurtinginSoCal ( member #41492) posted at 3:57 PM on Saturday, May 24th, 2014
I'm exactly where you are... I just want off the roller coaster and to have woken to it all have been a very bad dream...
DDay - 11/13/13, eve of our oldest daughter's bday
aero1122 (original poster member #41575) posted at 5:42 PM on Saturday, May 24th, 2014
He is comforting me and being very supportive and continually apologizing for what he has done to me and our relationship. I know it takes time but I just hate the way I am feeling.
Me-35
WH-36
Together 18 years
Married 7 years
2 kids
D-day 12-7-13
Both currently in counseling
Trying to R
I am a warrior!
I will survive and thrive!
Jrazz ( member #31349) posted at 5:44 PM on Saturday, May 24th, 2014
The first year is really tough. Even though feelings like happiness and security seem out of reach, know that they WILL come back. I promise.
(((aero1122)))
"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." - Deeply Scared's mom
4everfaithful83 ( member #41761) posted at 11:00 PM on Saturday, May 24th, 2014
I hear you aero1122! We all feel that way at some point!
I'm almost at my one year DDAY antiversary, and I just wanted to let you know that it does get better!!
I still struggle with things (as to be expected) But it does get better. Just take it one day at a time. Don't worry about tomorrow, next week or next month! Just take it one day at a time. Hold on! And keep posting! We are here for you.
Always know if the juice is worth the squeeze...
ME: 36
1 doggie
DDay: June 24th, 2013
DDay 2 : August 22nd,2017
Left him August 26th, 2017
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