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stunnedmullet ( member #42975) posted at 1:01 PM on Thursday, May 29th, 2014
I didn't get to as he deleted everything and I couldn't get the Facebook messages back. Part of me is glad because it would have hurt more, but I still feel like they have the complete puzzle and I only have part of it. I am sure what I imagine isn't even half as bad as what the real thing would be, which is why he deleted them :(
DD April Fools Day 2014 (unfortunately no joke)
BS (me) 45
WH 43
OW - a friend of WH for 5 years
4 month EA which turned into a 5 month PA
married 22 and 7 kids
Attempted reconciliation for 18 months until he walked out without warning
william ( member #41986) posted at 1:42 PM on Thursday, May 29th, 2014
my wife deleted almost everything long before i ever found out about her affairs. what she missed are emails she sent to herself. those emails are haunting.
yes, ive read them over and over. yes, ill continue reading them over and over hoping that maybe one day i can understand it all.
as painful as they are, im not sorry that i read them. they provide a much more nuanced view into what she thinking and feeling then the sanitized version i get from her. also, although they appear to be part fantasty they dont have IDK or ICR amongst them.
me - bh
her - lara01
from 09/11 - 05/13
2 ONS, 10 sexting partners, 1 LT EA/PA
??/06/13 DD/1 - admits to LT EA, begin false R.
01/13/14 DD/2 - LTA was PA.
01/18/14 DD/3 - sexting 5 guys.
01/19/14 DD/4 - 2 ONS with different guys
tryinginmi ( member #29358) posted at 2:57 PM on Thursday, May 29th, 2014
Four years later I still struggle with this topic. Their were almost 6000 text messages in six weeks between WH and cOW. I did not see any except the ones I found on DD#2. WH was deleting as they were texting by that point, but he fell asleep before he deleted the last two of them saying goodnight and they could not wait to see each other in the morning.
My struggle is WH upgraded phones in the middle of the A. His old phone is still here and if I understood how to pull the text messages off I am fairly sure they are there since he did not text anyone except cOW. I think about those messages all the time. I desperately want to read those messages.
Me - BW 40
Him - FWH 39
Her - MOW 47 Fat Assed Toothless Man Faced Whore!!!
DD#1 July 28, 2010 Admitted to EA. A went underground.
DD#2 August 19,2010 Admitted PA
sadone29 ( member #38597) posted at 3:06 PM on Thursday, May 29th, 2014
Well, I just went through his email and found a conversation he had with another female friend soon after DD.
I'm pissed off all over again. Her immediate reaction was 'was it something I did? No? Wow, what a cool wife you have."
DDay Feb. 28, 2013
"It is an act of self-respect and preservation to not forgive."
He finally moved out only because I became on obstacle in his new affair.
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