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FeelingSoMuch (original poster member #38814) posted at 10:02 PM on Wednesday, July 2nd, 2014
Grrrr.
xWW is furious that I want a lawyer to draft the separation process. She wants to do it ourselves.
She is now threatening to drag out the process, to dispute the condo and more. Why? Why doesn't she just move on?
And why all this after saying she wants the process to be amicable? Terrible day here. I just want this over with.
Me: BH
Her: WW
Together since 2001. Married since 2007. Found out about her affairs in 2013. Now separated, waiting for divorce paperwork and in a wonderful new relationship. Life is good again.
WeepingBuddhist ( member #39139) posted at 2:46 PM on Thursday, July 3rd, 2014
Just keep breathing. You can get through this. My X was the same way and it took way longer than it should have and yep, it cost money but I wanted it DONE. worth every minute and every penny.
Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14
FeelingSoMuch (original poster member #38814) posted at 6:04 PM on Friday, July 4th, 2014
xWW now says she's not taking the rental because she doesn't like the landlord.
Fair enough, but that means she'll be here until at least Aug. 1.
And continues to insist that she wants as much as possible out of the separation agreement. The other day I woke up next to her and she's on Tinder looking up guys. To this day, she has not asked me how I'm feeling, only laments that her life is in upheaval.
This is taking so long...
Me: BH
Her: WW
Together since 2001. Married since 2007. Found out about her affairs in 2013. Now separated, waiting for divorce paperwork and in a wonderful new relationship. Life is good again.
FeelingSoMuch (original poster member #38814) posted at 4:24 PM on Tuesday, July 29th, 2014
This one is just a therapeutic post to myself.
FOUR more days! Then WW moves out.
ONE more week! Until the separation agreement is signed.
Strong until the end. That's what I keep telling myself. And I feel great compared to the mess I was a year and a half ago when I found out about her affair. (and later I found out about one more)
Me: BH
Her: WW
Together since 2001. Married since 2007. Found out about her affairs in 2013. Now separated, waiting for divorce paperwork and in a wonderful new relationship. Life is good again.
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