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Jls0320 (original poster member #41192) posted at 8:13 PM on Tuesday, July 1st, 2014
So last week I tested WH by texting his as the OW from another number, he passed. I still feel like there's more I don't know, he failed 2 questions on a polygraph about her but swears he was nervous and not lying. Here's where crazy comes in, I want to have "her" text me saying "we need to chat". My thinking is he may come clean if there's anything else to admit to out of fear "she" will tell me. Tell me I'm crazy insane.
Me: BS 2 young kiddos
Him: EXWH, SA/NPD, Craigslist, porn, cam sites. EA/PA with disgusting co-worker troll
Too many DDays 9/13-1/15, too many chances to be a good man
Together 16 yrs, married 7yrs,
Divorced 2/11/15
I deserve to be the ONLY one
brokengirl37 ( member #42530) posted at 8:52 PM on Tuesday, July 1st, 2014
I think you are pain shopping which will make you feel crazy...but you are not crazy. Stop driving yourself mad. What is he doing to make you feel safe? If he says everything is out in the open then you sit back and let his actions do the talking...if something else comes out then you have your answer.
((((Jls0320))))
Me: 40
WH : 42
2 Boys Age 12, 16
D-Day Feb 16 2014
OW: My Co-worker
whereismylove ( member #41794) posted at 11:54 PM on Tuesday, July 1st, 2014
You're not crazy. I know how it is you want to know the whole truth but that just adds to the list of triggers that ruins your day. Keep testing him no problem but if the affair really is over its better in my opinion to move past and heal and not try to find out all the details. It will just make you mad/sad/insane/sick all over again when you hear those details. Its really good that he didn't respond to those texts my husband can't help himself. 
DDay: Nov.6th, Dec 24, Dec.27(2013) Jan 10th(2014)text contact after she moved (feb- july 2014.) Another text episode 1/9/15
Me : BS, 37. awesome doting wife&mom. (Also a chump for staying )
Him: WS, 43. EU
OW: 1/2 his age,engaged,& his employee
Jls0320 (original poster member #41192) posted at 4:26 PM on Wednesday, July 2nd, 2014
Thanks :) I got so much trickle truth about the situation, were just friends, then tells me some of the texts and comments when I'm about to find the answers on my own. He failed the poly when asked if he's had sex with her, but says he never did. I feel like he thinks he's gotten away with it so no need to admit to more which is why I want to shake him up and see if there's more he'd like to admit to
Me: BS 2 young kiddos
Him: EXWH, SA/NPD, Craigslist, porn, cam sites. EA/PA with disgusting co-worker troll
Too many DDays 9/13-1/15, too many chances to be a good man
Together 16 yrs, married 7yrs,
Divorced 2/11/15
I deserve to be the ONLY one
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