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Reconciliation :
What would you do?

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 Needadrink (original poster member #40512) posted at 9:31 AM on Wednesday, July 2nd, 2014

Some days I am so obsessed with thoughts of going to her house. It's been a year and I am just so upset that she screwed my H on and off for 20 yrs and she gets away with it. Her H doesnt know, her kids don't know, they can just carry on with their day as though nothing has happened. She lives in another state so it would mean a plane trip, oh but I so want to surprise her by turning up on her doorstep. Will I ever get over these thoughts or do I do it, I would love some feedback from anyone in a similar situation. Thanks

BS 57
WH 58
M 28 yrs together 32
D Day 10th April 2013
20 Yrs of Infidelity with long term affair 18 yrs but only seen a couple of times a year. 3 Prostitutes, sexual Massages.Ongoing Porn. lapdances.

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Lowlow ( member #38653) posted at 9:43 AM on Wednesday, July 2nd, 2014

Have you considered contacting her BS? I'm thinking that's a legitimate way to get revenge. Even better if you can send him photo or email evidence....

Me (BS) 41 Him (FWS) 42 at time of confession

Reconciling

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 Needadrink (original poster member #40512) posted at 9:49 AM on Wednesday, July 2nd, 2014

I have tried to find him on every social media site possible and I can't find him. I know his name but it's almost as if he doesn't exist

BS 57
WH 58
M 28 yrs together 32
D Day 10th April 2013
20 Yrs of Infidelity with long term affair 18 yrs but only seen a couple of times a year. 3 Prostitutes, sexual Massages.Ongoing Porn. lapdances.

posts: 142   ·   registered: Sep. 1st, 2013
id 6857188
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