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12yearsloyal (original poster member #43064) posted at 3:37 PM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014
Is there any kind of group that is not divorce care but a group for those of us that are not quite in R and not quite heading to D or S. A group that meets in person. I guess a group that would be similar to a divorce care type thing but for those of us that don't know yet if we are going to R, S or D?
Him: WS, 51 EA/PA 2.5 years
D Day 3/10/14 N/C broke (phone/email) 6/14-10/14
Me: BS 52
OW: Banana Republic whore
Status: Fence sitting or D Praying for answers
Betrayal: so painful it should be a crime - 12 months in prison.
sudra ( member #30143) posted at 8:19 PM on Saturday, July 5th, 2014
You might look for a BAN (Beyond Affairs Network) in your area. I attend monthly and it's a huge help.
Me (BW) (5\64), Him(SAWH) (68)Married 31 years, 1 son (28), 1 stepdaughter (36) DDay #1 January 2004DDay #2 7-27-2010 7 month EA/PA (became "engaged" to OW before he told me he wanted a divorce)Working on R
Mochagurl ( member #14660) posted at 12:45 AM on Sunday, July 6th, 2014
I too have attended BAN meeting. Very supportive weather you stay or divorce. Just helping you get through situations.
Their website and the book Ann Bercht wrote are also good. The book is called My Husbands Affair the Beat Thing That Happened To Me. One of the best books I have read and can relate to.
Me: BS-56
Him: WS-56
Married: 36 years
Divorced: 11-17-15
DD 36, DD 26, DS 23, DD 20
You can't start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading the last one.
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