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katiescarlett (original poster member #43399) posted at 1:16 AM on Tuesday, July 15th, 2014
So, I'm supposed to believe that my lying WH texted "I love you. I miss you. I wish you were in my arms" to just a friend? This same friend he called stunning and admitted he had a drunken sexual encounter with, I'm supposed to buy that?
For 5 years this text has haunted my memory. I never forgot it. It is burned in my brain and I remember how I felt when I saw it. I was pregnant and started shaking and felt so cold. Like my heart froze. I just want the damn truth.
MH-27
MH-28
3 boys
My D-Day July 2014 and numerous others.
His D-Day 8-20-14
rachelc ( member #30314) posted at 1:19 AM on Tuesday, July 15th, 2014
Honey why are you staying ? Would he come here to post if you are going to recover?
Hugs !!!
TS68 ( member #40211) posted at 1:22 AM on Tuesday, July 15th, 2014
No, you shouldn't believe what he told you. Do you know anything else?
Did something trigger you to ask now after 5 years? Just goes to show, unresolved lies never really go away.
I know how you feel. Sorry...
You should have some real advice soon.
Me: 48
Him: 50
Married 22 years too many
DS19, DS17, DD10
Divorced
Know your worth.
Kajem ( member #36134) posted at 1:35 AM on Tuesday, July 15th, 2014
Trust your gut, it doesn't lie.
I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - UnknownRelationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.
Dark Inertia ( member #30727) posted at 1:49 AM on Tuesday, July 15th, 2014
It doesn't get any more blatant. To believe it is a "just friends" relationship would be foolish.
h0peless ( member #36697) posted at 1:52 AM on Tuesday, July 15th, 2014
It's ab out as believable as the model who claims to survive off of sunlight. It's a bald faced lie.
katiescarlett (original poster member #43399) posted at 2:11 AM on Tuesday, July 15th, 2014
I can't quote on my phone.
I'm staying because I love him. Our marriage isn't all terrible. There's a lot of wonderful.
My recent Dday is what triggered me. I found a FB message on Dday to this "friend" calling her stunning and saying he missed her. He only admitted today that they fooled around once before he and I started dating.
I have never believed she was just a friend or that the text was even to her. I also never found proof of anything else between them.
I'll never know now. I should have called the number and confronted when I found it. I thought of messaging her on FB too but it's been so long. 
MH-27
MH-28
3 boys
My D-Day July 2014 and numerous others.
His D-Day 8-20-14
Ostrich80 ( member #34827) posted at 7:58 AM on Tuesday, July 15th, 2014
I'll never know now.
I think you do know. just because you can't confirm doesn't mean it didn't happen. Our gut feelings are real. I'm so sorry he has caused you so much pain
BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????
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