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Skype/cyber sex - - is this normal?

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 SadieMae (original poster member #42986) posted at 7:29 PM on Thursday, July 24th, 2014

WH got involved with OW on an amateur porn site. They traded pictures and made each other videos. They also skyped a couple of times a month.

Apparently the Skype dates consisted mostly of my WH masturbating while OW encouraged. She didn't usually masturbate with him on skype. He said that happened very rarely. That most times he was the only one getting completely naked and masturbating.

To me it sounds like Skype was WH's way of being a porn star. Is that how Skype and online sex work? I always assumed it was mutual?

Me: BW D-day 3/9/2014
TT until 6/2016
TT again Fall 2020
Yay! A new D-Day on 11/8/2023 WTAF

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 SadieMae (original poster member #42986) posted at 7:42 PM on Thursday, July 24th, 2014

If this is inappropriate or in the wrong forum, I apologize.

Me: BW D-day 3/9/2014
TT until 6/2016
TT again Fall 2020
Yay! A new D-Day on 11/8/2023 WTAF

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TheIrishGirl ( member #43496) posted at 8:01 PM on Thursday, July 24th, 2014

I think cybersex, much like real life sex, comes in as many variations as there are people to participate.

Me: 33, BW Him: 40, fWH
Together 11y, married 8
2 children (ours) 7/11 & 3/14
D-day 4/18/14 I saw his 'other' email
Working on R, and it's working

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isadora ( member #29130) posted at 2:51 AM on Friday, July 25th, 2014

WH had fantasy sex online, typing it out on Skype messaging. I'm sure he did some using video. It was all about the fantasy for WH.

Me: BW Him: who cares
Divorced: 4/2015
2 DDs and 2DSs
Who knows how many affairs at this point
Multiple D-Days

I can only control myself, no one else. I do not have that kind of power.

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Jls0320 ( member #41192) posted at 3:39 AM on Friday, July 25th, 2014

Mine is a porn/cyber addict, he would go on a cam site (omegle) click through people until he saw vagina and then mutually masturbate and sex chat. It was all fantasy for him, a high, he saw nothing wrong with it and felt it was the same as porn

Me: BS 2 young kiddos
Him: EXWH, SA/NPD, Craigslist, porn, cam sites. EA/PA with disgusting co-worker troll
Too many DDays 9/13-1/15, too many chances to be a good man
Together 16 yrs, married 7yrs,
Divorced 2/11/15
I deserve to be the ONLY one

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