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StartingFreshNow (original poster member #44224) posted at 9:17 PM on Thursday, July 24th, 2014
I just found SI and I'm looking for help. I don't want to start a bunch of new threads but I'm guessing there are some out there for "newbies" that are very helpful (such as Mia's one that was just bumped). Am I wrong?
Basically I am the WS and it's been about 3 months since the last time I was caught communicating with the person I had an EA with. I finally realized what was at stake and I've made a complete 180 and from everything I read I'm doing everything right, but my BH is just really unsure he can stay in our marriage, ever trust me again, ever stop feeling the way he feels, etc. I'm looking for help and advice and just figure the posts are already out there so I'm hoping to find some.
Thanks in advance.
Me: WW
2 young kids
DDay - Dec 2013 (EA), TT
DDay 2 - Jul 28, 2014 (PA), TT
DDay 3 - end of Aug/beg of Sep 2014
(All the same A)
StartingFreshNow (original poster member #44224) posted at 9:20 PM on Thursday, July 24th, 2014
Me: WW
2 young kids
DDay - Dec 2013 (EA), TT
DDay 2 - Jul 28, 2014 (PA), TT
DDay 3 - end of Aug/beg of Sep 2014
(All the same A)
BaxtersBFF ( member #26859) posted at 9:31 PM on Thursday, July 24th, 2014
d-day is the day you were discovered, or the day you confessed.
I bumped some threads for you. Also, copy and paste this into the browser - http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/faq_ws.asp. Or just click into the Healing Library. Lots of info there for you to go through.
StartingFreshNow (original poster member #44224) posted at 9:37 PM on Thursday, July 24th, 2014
Me: WW
2 young kids
DDay - Dec 2013 (EA), TT
DDay 2 - Jul 28, 2014 (PA), TT
DDay 3 - end of Aug/beg of Sep 2014
(All the same A)
sorrowfulmate ( member #43441) posted at 9:41 PM on Thursday, July 24th, 2014
This has a lot of good things to say in it.
http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=354101
Me-WS 52 Her-BS 51 Questioningall
5 kids DDay 12/13 (lied ONS)
Dday 3/3/14 - multiple EA, PA
TT ended in October when I had polygraph
"Good night, Sorrowful. Good work. Sleep well. I can always divorce you in the morning." Dread BS Roberts
StartingFreshNow (original poster member #44224) posted at 9:53 PM on Thursday, July 24th, 2014
Thanks, I appreciate all these links more than you know!
Me: WW
2 young kids
DDay - Dec 2013 (EA), TT
DDay 2 - Jul 28, 2014 (PA), TT
DDay 3 - end of Aug/beg of Sep 2014
(All the same A)
PenitentMan ( member #43174) posted at 12:14 AM on Friday, July 25th, 2014
The Life Boat is awesome. That should be in the healing library. And Maia's guide in light of the constant bumping. My .02. Mod Please. 
Me: FWH (39)
Her: BW (34)
DDay 1: March 2013 (EA/PA that *I* rugswept)
DDay 2: April 2014 (PA with double betrayal. OW was wife's friend)
Married: Since 2001
StartingFreshNow (original poster member #44224) posted at 1:48 PM on Friday, July 25th, 2014
Thanks! I'm having trouble finding the Life Boat but I'll keep searching
Me: WW
2 young kids
DDay - Dec 2013 (EA), TT
DDay 2 - Jul 28, 2014 (PA), TT
DDay 3 - end of Aug/beg of Sep 2014
(All the same A)
StartingFreshNow (original poster member #44224) posted at 1:50 PM on Friday, July 25th, 2014
Nevermind, I found the Life Boat :)
Me: WW
2 young kids
DDay - Dec 2013 (EA), TT
DDay 2 - Jul 28, 2014 (PA), TT
DDay 3 - end of Aug/beg of Sep 2014
(All the same A)
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