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mike7 ( member #38603) posted at 2:30 AM on Sunday, July 27th, 2014
i agree with uhtred. it's as if you're running away from the problem.
i understand that this stuff is exhausting. but you need to deal with it sooner rather than later. imo she is either already in a PA with her boss, or soon will be. the things you've said, sending picture of her toe-ring to her boss, etc. are not good signs at all. she shouldn't be sending personal grooming things to her boss at all, let alone before she sends them to you. deleting texts? bad sign. what reason does she have for deleting texts?
i have seen this so many times before on this site. if you do nothing, it always gets worse. you need to have a heart to heart with her. you need to tell her you're uncomfortable. if she says, you're just being ridiculous, ask her why she deletes texts? she will lie. so set firm transparency boundaries. don't back down. don't accept any excuse. if you're uncomfortable she needs to do what you need to be comfortable. that's what spouses do for each other, unless they're having an affair.
BH 60
WW 58
Two grown kids
DDay 1/15/2013
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